ryanrabl Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 My ex and I parted ways more than a year ago and I feel like I am in a good place again.For the first time in a while,I don't have an emotional scab to pick at-it's very relieving.I'm finishing up my last year in college and am applying to medical schools,finishing up a few classes,going out but there is something missing in my life-companionship.While I have been careful to spend my last year alone to repair myself and deeply work on personal betterment,I feel as though I am ready for a new relationship.Unfortunately,I feel as though I have lost my mojo.I used to be so calm and cool and now I feel like an utter dweeb.Being out of the game for so long,I feel as though I need to regain the swagger I had my early years of college .I go out,I party,I talk to women..but something is missing..am I not making the right moves or am I giving the wrong vibe?I have everything in the world going for me..so whats up?My main question ,albeit long-winded is what can I do to get out of this rut!Should I stop looking and just living my life and let life plan its thing?
Mike B. Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 Mojo comes and go. I was in a similar situation when I was in college. It works itself out. If you had it before, it will come back. I wouldn't stress over it. When you're hot, you're hot. When you're not, you're not. Just don't try too hard and it will come. I guarantee it.
Feelin Frisky Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 The name of the game is marketing and not selling. The difference is not trying to convince yourself or anyone else of your worth but instead letting them see and buy into you. It's a tough go for someone who has a propensity to be jumpy or second-guessing about themselves. It's a long term job. I would advise that you think about fulfilling all your sacrifices to become a medical professional and try to be confident and asseertive in all your theaters of progres in that regard. Give yourself a chance to be seen and perhaps admired by women and don't sell yourself short that there's something wrong with you that you can't pick up some bim in a bar this night. You're a professional in progress--start grooming yourself for that. Chicks go for doctors and they like men who who look like they have it all going for them. Don't fall apart on the way telling yourself you have no mojo. Tell yourself "you da man". Works for me.
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