anna100 Posted August 30, 2010 Posted August 30, 2010 So I thought i'd go on a date... someone asked me out, so why not!? On my date... it was OK, nothing special. The man was very interesting... it wasn't boring or anything. I also got asked out twice by two other men whilst on the date...haha. However when I went on a date with my ex it was the most amazing date I had ever been on. it lased 24 hours and I knew that he was going to be special to me. I feel like I've had a wake up call that nothing will be as special... even if I am open to it. Nothing will be as amazing as that date I had with him and now I am really sad. he sucks...stupid ex
9Lives Posted August 30, 2010 Posted August 30, 2010 So I thought i'd go on a date... someone asked me out, so why not!? On my date... it was OK, nothing special. The man was very interesting... it wasn't boring or anything. I also got asked out twice by two other men whilst on the date...haha. However when I went on a date with my ex it was the most amazing date I had ever been on. it lased 24 hours and I knew that he was going to be special to me. I feel like I've had a wake up call that nothing will be as special... even if I am open to it. Nothing will be as amazing as that date I had with him and now I am really sad. he sucks...stupid ex Those memories will hold you back from meeting a really nice person. I kinda stop dating right now cause Im wasting people time. Next month I may try again but dating right now gets on my nerves. Everyone is all lovey dovey and fake...then you meet the real a/sshole and here we go. Im not ready for all this
miserab Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 Yes I need an input on this also. When I went out with a new date, it just made me miss my ex. Just like Anna, our date was always fun, always wonderful. While with the new date, it was just ordinary, and I feel worse as time went by on that date. I keep thinking "I used to have so much better than this". Does it mean I'm not ready to date yet?
PegNosePete Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 It may mean you're not ready, or it may mean the new person is just not for you. You can't expect every date to be wonderful... many many people have bad and "ordinary" dates, even those who aren't freshly broken up.
bonpaw2008 Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 I agree with Peg it means you aren't ready for a full-flown relationship. Also, love comes in many different ways, so just because it wasn't the fireworks and birds flying around your head when you were with this person doesn't mean that it couldn't be something special. For myself I know that I will be trying to change my pattern and not look for that "instant attraction" it has never caused me anything but hurt.
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