somuchforthat Posted August 30, 2010 Posted August 30, 2010 my ex dumped me its been over a year but a few months ago we meet up went downtown, sat at a park for a while held hands walked around and held hands........ i thought we were back together or something idk I get home and she tells me via chat that it felt right but it wasnt- in regards to the hand holding ahhuh wtc does that mean :confused: i like you but cant be w you? toying w emotions?
USMCHokie Posted August 30, 2010 Posted August 30, 2010 This is exactly why you don't go see an ex that you still have feelings for...and why you don't hold hands with an ex that you still have feelings for... And why the hell are you still thinking about this when it happened a few months ago...?
Cee Posted August 30, 2010 Posted August 30, 2010 my ex dumped me its been over a year but a few months ago we meet up went downtown, sat at a park for a while held hands walked around and held hands........ i thought we were back together or something idk I get home and she tells me via chat that it felt right but it wasnt- in regards to the hand holding ahhuh wtc does that mean :confused: i like you but cant be w you? toying w emotions? Your ex is mean and thinks she's being nice when she said "i like you but cant be w you." She doesn't want to get back with you. And by being "nice" about it, she toyed with your emotions. Also, she used the word "can't" which is girl code for "won't" or "don't want to." I admit it, I use "can't"- it's me being a wuss and not being honest.
Gironbachs Posted August 30, 2010 Posted August 30, 2010 she's using you. All you're doing is allowing her to hurt you. You have to make her understand that we all (even those of us with vaginas) have to live by the consequences of our choices and those who don’t have the courage to accept the risks that come with any meaningful decision, do not deserve the spoils of the brave and the responsible.
DustySaltus Posted August 30, 2010 Posted August 30, 2010 Her actions were self-serving. She wanted to see if the "spark" was still there because she is missing some sort of "spark" from her life right now. In moments like this, she should've just sucked it up and move forward. But she was only thinking about herself. I'm sorry you have to go through this but it's time to move forward and focus on yourself, just like she did.
Author somuchforthat Posted August 31, 2010 Author Posted August 31, 2010 Her actions were self-serving. She wanted to see if the "spark" was still there because she is missing some sort of "spark" from her life right now. In moments like this, she should've just sucked it up and move forward. But she was only thinking about herself. I'm sorry you have to go through this but it's time to move forward and focus on yourself, just like she did. i have tried implementing a no contact policy. She will randomly text me sometimes or message me online and i do my best to ignore it all. But sometimes i cave in and start talking to her via sms or online...
Author somuchforthat Posted August 31, 2010 Author Posted August 31, 2010 This is exactly why you don't go see an ex that you still have feelings for...and why you don't hold hands with an ex that you still have feelings for... And why the hell are you still thinking about this when it happened a few months ago...? Idk i was just wondering...just been thinking a lot lately about where i am headed in life in terms of romance and such I didn't know about this site back then so i didn't really have anyone to talk to or get insight on this
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