HopeLove Posted August 30, 2010 Posted August 30, 2010 After exactly 4 months of struggle between trying to move on and not giving up my hope of getting back with my ex I finally realized there's no hope for us and now I started my healing process. I know is going to be tough but I'm starting to feel an inner peace and I think this is a good sign. I just wanted to share this we you and thank you again for you support.
PegNosePete Posted August 30, 2010 Posted August 30, 2010 Congratulations on passing a major milestone
Gfkr2 Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 I am happy to hear of your healing from a bad R I'm also a healer, who had a close friend rescue me. Not everyone is as lucky as we are. Sadly, some are ruined for life never having the ability to move on.
Author HopeLove Posted September 4, 2010 Author Posted September 4, 2010 I can't stop thinking of him every day. I'ts crazy but there's over a year I think of him every day. I still miss him, I love him and I hate him. Too many emotions! I keep myself busy, we don't have contact but I still can't stop thinking of him. Does any wan't have a clue how to stop this?
LostInTurn Posted September 5, 2010 Posted September 5, 2010 Hi Hope, I'm glad you posted. I hadn't seen anything from you and I was wondering how you were. You're on the right path. You're going to go through all the emotions. There was a point where I thought I 'loved' and 'hated' my ex as well. You'll figure out which it is and carry on in the healing process. The first step you've already taken. You're going to let yourself be happy and move on from it. You may feel mixed emotions for a few weeks, maybe less. It depends on how you deal with things. You're strong and you deserve to be happy. Don't forget that. You fought and you reached out. You're the better person. Don't fault yourself and don't let yourself own blame. You're going to be fine. Its a process, but keep posting.
chocolate_boy Posted September 5, 2010 Posted September 5, 2010 I can't stop thinking of him every day. I'ts crazy but there's over a year I think of him every day. I still miss him, I love him and I hate him. Too many emotions! I keep myself busy, we don't have contact but I still can't stop thinking of him. Does any wan't have a clue how to stop this? It's a cliche, but no contact, time and lots of self love is the only way. Be strong
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