Cee Posted September 1, 2010 Posted September 1, 2010 Who knew this would be so tuff!? It really should not be a big deal to say "see ya" and be done! I do not initiate contact, but he has been sending me texts. I guess, in the back of my mind, I am really hoping that he will say " I miss you so much, you are the only girl for me" and then show up with flowers... Keep dreamin', I know! It sucks, I know. I had to let go of somebody recently who clearly wasn't that into me. Actually, he probably was never into me. Despite the hundreds of texts we sent (and the occasional visits). Text banter can feel like real communication, but would anybody do this... Loser Guy devotes 15 seconds of his time while standing in a long line to text "How goes? I am the DMV, lol." Woman feels so special and loved that she decides to embroider his text message on a pillow and sleep with it. I don't mean to be bitter right now, but I admit it. I am.
EasyHeart Posted September 1, 2010 Posted September 1, 2010 I don't think there was anything wrong asking him. You have spent a lot of time together and have been intimate. You might want to make it very clear ahead of time in a relationship in the future, that you are not interested in getting sexually intimate with someone who doesn't appreciate you enough to be exclusive with you. That is self respect. That you're not going to stand in a dance line, and say, 'pick me, oh pick me'. Forget that crap!I agree. If you sleep with him before finding out if he wants to be exclusive, what do you expect? From his viewpoint, I suspect he's complaining to all his friends that he found a girl who really liked him and wanted to be his FB, but then all of a sudden from out of nowhere she starts talking about relationships and exclusivity. WTF is her problem???
Lucky555 Posted September 1, 2010 Posted September 1, 2010 It sucks, I know. I had to let go of somebody recently who clearly wasn't that into me. Actually, he probably was never into me. Despite the hundreds of texts we sent (and the occasional visits). Text banter can feel like real communication, but would anybody do this... Loser Guy devotes 15 seconds of his time while standing in a long line to text "How goes? I am the DMV, lol." Woman feels so special and loved that she decides to embroider his text message on a pillow and sleep with it. I don't mean to be bitter right now, but I admit it. I am. I just saw this and you know you are absolutely right. I have been trying for months to get a guy to stop contacting me through online. I have not initiated anything. However I am so bitter now. just a couple a days ago he contacted me after two weeks of not saying anything. I need to completely block all contact. I just get more and more bitter towards men!!! Today this poor innocent man was asking me for directions. I found myself sounding really bitter and arrogant. It wasn't even intentional. Ugh i hope to heal and find the happy me that i was before i met him. its like i just want him to say he was sorry and be extremely apologetic for everything he did. I am trying to stop being bitter. I don't want to be alone but im am tired of jerks ;( hope you find happiness soon.
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