butterfly_dance Posted August 30, 2010 Posted August 30, 2010 (edited) My ex married a woman to stay in the country 11 years ago. This happened while we were together and I only found out about it after we split up. His intention was to stay in the country for 2 years then come to my country as he said we were meant to be together. His motivation to stay there was based on earning alot of money. He tracked me down a few months ago and emailed me saying that he wished he left with me all those years ago and he has thought about me alot over the years, but didn't have my contact details. He said it was never his intention to stay in that country that long, he always thought he would end up here. He has a partner and a 3 y.o. child, who he told me about, however did not mention his partner. He doesn't mention his partner on his social network page and the pics he has are mostly of him and the child or just the child. There are no pics of just him and his partner. Contact from him stopped suddenly 4 months ago then I've just found out that he married his partner last week. The only mention of a wedding on his page was the night before he said his was 'getting married tomorrow'. There had been no mention of a wedding from him or his friends in the lead up to the wedding. What is he playing at? Could he have changed from the lying, cheating person he was and will he deceive his wife like he has done to his ex? I'm confused.... Edited August 30, 2010 by butterfly_dance adding
Chibaby Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 I am sure you are curious to see where this leads, but he doesn't seem very stable or reliable. I'd keep my distance....
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