worlybear Posted August 29, 2010 Posted August 29, 2010 Had massive row with oldest son tonite. He is in prison serving time for drunk driving. I phoned him to arrange visitation. In the conversation found out that XH has now got teaching job full-time despite his very ropy previous headship. Theres a lot of history to this story but the basic message seems to be that the only way to get on in this life is to be a cheat or a liar (preferably both). There's no knock back -you get to have a brand new life and leave all your boring old problems (previous family )behind. Son's take on this was that his Dad made a mistake -and it took 28 yrs to discover that!!! -and we all make mistakes and he's happy. Oh and I should not manipulate daughter not to see her father and should pass on letters to her- I WAS SEETHING- I pass on ALL letters- such as they are (and photocopy them ). However my daughter is intelligent enough to know when she's been downgraded to 2nd best. She's not stupid. Forget honesty and integrity. Tell lies, cheat on your partner and family- and guess what? YOU SUCCEED and leave it all behind. In the last 18 months I've lost my H ,my family have lost their Dad(apart from oldest son) and I have also lost my oldest son to XH and OW. Not bad going eh! I am sad I've lost my son Anyone out there know of a course I could take to learn how to succeed at cheating /breaking up a family- its obviously the only way to go.
LostInTurn Posted August 29, 2010 Posted August 29, 2010 The course doesn't exist. I look for the course every day, and without fail, nothing. I would have taken it long ago if I could enroll. I know what you mean. I look at life and think about all the people I know who lie and cheat. They seem to get everything handed to them. They never appear to have any problems or upsets. I get it. There are days when I wish I was a mean and terrible b*tch. I figure I would be happy and wouldn't have a care in the world. I wish I could hurt people and not think about it. We can't do that though. What would happen? We would be just like the bad ones. We would become the people who hurt us and others. That's not who we are. If we were, we wouldn't be here.
Author worlybear Posted August 29, 2010 Author Posted August 29, 2010 But being here means that we are reactive and passive. Losers always come last - why bother being a "good" person and set moral standards for your kids to follow when the bottom line is that its pointless? The only winners are the cheats and liars. They end up with what they want BUT its not what they deserve! I return to my original point- people who are selfish and ruthless end up on top and seem impervious to the hurt and destruction they have left in their wake. Yes I know I'm whinging but life SUCKS.
Author worlybear Posted August 29, 2010 Author Posted August 29, 2010 Just had an idea- perhaps I'll do something creative- send a really nice chatty letter to the ex and completely confuse him- lots of photos of his daughter ,so he can reflect on what he's missing.
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