lenalena Posted August 29, 2010 Posted August 29, 2010 Hi. I've been dating with my ex-bf for almost 5 years. Last 18 months were really hard - I tried to break up with him a couple of times (I knew that I had no feeling for him anymore) but didn't succeeded: he either promised me to complete new attitude or just blackmailed me (like he was going to commit suicide or set our friends against me). Finally I've learnt to live with this and try to find a bright side in our relationship. For some time we were alright. We planned a vacation together which I've been expecting a lot (had a really tough year - parents/work and so on; wanted just to have a good rest).I honestly thought of having a breaking-up conversation with him after our come back. The week before we had to leave I was on a business trip and when I came back just the day before leaving on vacation he told me that he had already took all of his things out of my flat and was not going to go on holiday with me since he wanted to break up (and have already experienced some special feelings for someone else). I was out of town just for 1 week!! So I had to travel abroad alone. I was frustrated not by the fact that we had broke up but that he dumped me the day before our long planned trip! So now I'm traveling alone and while checking facebook from time to time..what i see? He has changed his marital status for single first and to "engaged" just in two days!! He never had anything in his marital status when we were together by the way. And now I'm thinking - is he doing this just to piss me off in front of all our mutual friends? Or just to make a fun of me? First I wanted to comment something like "you'll change in to "married with children" in a week" (cos this is really ridiculous!) but now I doubt I should do that. I really ok with the fact that he might already have someone. But why he is keeping informing everyone about this?
Don Ho Posted August 29, 2010 Posted August 29, 2010 Lena, who cares?? You said you were ok with it, apparently not if your putting a thread here. You shouldn't care. You're just a little butthurt by the whole thing. See what happens when you look on their FB and MS?? Delete him as friend, don't look at that stuff and move on.
Thorgs Posted August 29, 2010 Posted August 29, 2010 Sounds like he used the time between you first trying to break up with him to the time he broke up with you to get over you. He played it well.
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