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Ok I am sure this is not true just to me but I have been dating this wonderful guy for about 5 months. We are both divorced have kids but all the sudden I recently feel that he is taking advantage of my kindness. I really enjoy his children and they enjoy me being around. I love doing for him --he works about a 12 hour day. But all of the sudden things are being taken for granted and I don't ever want to get into a relationship like I was in before. So what do I do--I don't want to be alone I have wonderful feelings for this person and when his business and political career is going smoothly he is a wonderful, caring, loving, sharing human being. Yes his ex has been trouble at times but we have worked through that.

So this board is great and has been so please help me through this problem. Thanks

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Have a discussion with him about your concerns. Couples need to be able to communicate about issues like this.

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communicate!! sometimes my b/f takes me for granted too, so i sit his ass down and talk to him. its the best you can do. cuz if you start acting in a different way he may not like it and it may cause problems.

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Just wanted to say thanks. Sometimes the solution is so simple and right there in front of you. Communication was the key. He was afraid he was taking advantage of me so he wasn't saying anything and kind of withdrew. We talked and got everything worked out--he just said he didn't know what to think or do because no one has been this nice to him before, and I guess I was trying to second guess him because I didn't want to get hurt like I did the last time.

So again thanks for the simple but great advice. I love the shack :D

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glad that it worked out. dont forget to talk when something is bothering you. also sometimes writing it out might help as well. good luck.

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