anna100 Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 Today I am just really sad. I understand what I am going to go through, have been here before. I also understand that I must not contact him/beg him back as I will regret it... also I don't really want to do it either! I am just really sad that I wont get to hang out with him any more. I forgive him for not loving me, it is painful but I do forgive him. I am starting to forgive him for how he treated me. I just can't believe I wont go to the movies with him any more... I wont plan trips to amazing places etc... It is so horrible to loose someone and know that they will have those amazing times with someone else. All I did was love him. I wish that I could stop missing him... he tried to send me a birthday card and I just sent an e-mail saying please don't contact me etc.. it was very nice and non dramatic. I want to tell him sometimes how I feel... I need someone to tell me it wont do me any good will it?
LostInTurn Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 It won't do you any good. These are your feelings. Telling him probably will not make a difference. You know how you feel. You will continue knowing how you feel. These upsets are due to him, but you're healing now and you need to stay strong. It really isn't worth the time and effort of reaching out. Knowing you miss someone means you're human. You have feelings. Tell us about how you feel. We're all ears. We'll always respond and we'll always help guide you. That's what we're all here for.
PegNosePete Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 I wont plan trips to amazing places etc... Hmm, I went through a similar phase a while back. Thinking about a holiday we had planned and had to cancel, and thinking about the future holidays we weren't going to go on. Then I started wondering what I could do for holidays now, how maybe I'd just take time off work and sit around doing nothing, or just not bother having time off at all. But then I realized... I can do whatever the hell I want on my holidays! Go wherever I like! Nobody else to keep happy or to consider and no need to compromise. And now I am really excited about going on holiday on my own I need someone to tell me it wont do me any good will it? It won't do you any good. He already knows. If he cared, he'd be there.
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