jamesum Posted August 30, 2010 Posted August 30, 2010 so how are interracial relationships involving Asian Indians in your area? Why are you insecure for being an Indian? Does living in the Deep South really mess you up that much? If yes then come here to California dude. No one gives a rats ass about your race here.
yah Posted August 30, 2010 Posted August 30, 2010 Labster12- I was only answering the Q in the OP. Now that I see you are obsessing with being in an interracial relationship, I must say, stop! If it happens, it happens. If you fall in love with an Indian girl, great. If you fall in love with a non-Indian girl, that's great too. But if it makes you feel any better, interracial relationships are more common in larger cities/metro areas where there is more diversity and usually more open-minded and liberal people. Now stop obsessing. Seriously. So you're an Asian girl that goes out with non-Asian guys...? I didn't specifically seek out a non-Asian guy. My SO happens to be white. If he were Asian I'd go out with him too. Agreed. This topic is getting overkill. Yup. Overkill.
Author Labster12 Posted August 30, 2010 Author Posted August 30, 2010 man you guys are sensitive, all I did was ask a question also as I said, my girlfriend thought I was Hispanic when she first met me, she did not know I was Indian now that her family and friends know I am an Indian, she tells me she gets A LOT of flak for it. Just today some Latin dude grabbed her butt (I was far off but I saw it and I got off the treadmill) and she smacked their hand away, the guy said "what you gonna give Apu some and deny a brother? B*tch you a sellout". I walked up to him and said "do we have a problem?", he said "yea we gotta problem ya sand monkey, if you was to ever touch one of ours out in LA, you would be beaten down and stomped, why don't ya leave her alone and stick to your own type?". Of course the guy doesn't know my girlfriend and she doesn't know him, the guy just knows me from one of his classes. So obviously the whole Metro area thing is a big fat lie if Indian guy - Latina couples are really that hated in LA. I simply asked a question.
Author Labster12 Posted August 30, 2010 Author Posted August 30, 2010 Why are you insecure for being an Indian? Does living in the Deep South really mess you up that much? If yes then come here to California dude. No one gives a rats ass about your race here. Insecure? Please it is a curse being an Indian guy in the interracial dating world. Being in the deep south gives me a lack of exposure to Indian people. As for the bold, HAHA, I have visited California and met people from there, they are so shallow in terms of race. I know for a fact that an Indian guy - Asian girl and Indian guy - Latina pairing does not exist in California at all.
Author Labster12 Posted August 30, 2010 Author Posted August 30, 2010 Also I have my reasons for "obsessing" over interracial relationships involving Indians because 1. Indian people have a backwards conservative close minded culture that forbids interracial marriage. 2. Indian guy - Latina and Indian guy - Asian girl relationships are unheard of in movies, in media, on the net and everywhere. 3. Whenever an Indian guy dates outside his own race it is with a White girl and that is all I have ever seen or heard of in my life. 4. I really want to know WHERE I can move to one day in the US to a place where I won't catch heaps of racism for dating a Latin girl and instead just be treated normal for it. 5. Interracial relationships involving Black and White men are accepted but Indian men always get flak for being in one. 6. All the stereotypes about Indian men out there are negative and all I have read and heard are negative things. According to an OkCupid survey Indian men are the least desirable.
somuchforthat Posted August 30, 2010 Posted August 30, 2010 I have seen Indian guys w white gals haven't seen any w Hispanics myself yea its a uphill battle lol are you religous at all? Usually if its the same religion then its sometimes a but easier like christan and christan Do you what you wanna and don't care about the dam aunties and uncles giving weird looks to you...its your life and live it that way you want to. We arnt in the 18th century and we arnt in the homeland...besides i hear people are even worse or just as bad there in terms of infidelity and stuff. just my input!
USMCHokie Posted August 30, 2010 Posted August 30, 2010 man you guys are sensitive, all I did was ask a question Yep...you asked a question...and then it was discussed to death...and then you asked it again...and again...and then again...do you need the link to that first mega thread...? Bottom line...go do something with your life...
xpaperxcutx Posted August 30, 2010 Posted August 30, 2010 Why don't you move to the Uk? The statistics there for interracial dating is higher. Generally, Indians are strict when it comes to dating. Most traditional families still haven't dispel the idea of arranged marriages, and women and men who date outside of their race are frowned upon. I had a good friend who's Indian, and back in high school she dated an Italian guy. The only thing about it was she had to date him behind her parents back. Nowadays, she has an Indian boyfriend and guess what? Her parents actually like her boyfriend because he's Indian as well and is from a prominent background.
Bogo123 Posted August 30, 2010 Posted August 30, 2010 Also I have my reasons for "obsessing" over interracial relationships involving Indians because 1. Indian people have a backwards conservative close minded culture that forbids interracial marriage. 2. Indian guy - Latina and Indian guy - Asian girl relationships are unheard of in movies, in media, on the net and everywhere. 3. Whenever an Indian guy dates outside his own race it is with a White girl and that is all I have ever seen or heard of in my life. 4. I really want to know WHERE I can move to one day in the US to a place where I won't catch heaps of racism for dating a Latin girl and instead just be treated normal for it. 5. Interracial relationships involving Black and White men are accepted but Indian men always get flak for being in one. 6. All the stereotypes about Indian men out there are negative and all I have read and heard are negative things. According to an OkCupid survey Indian men are the least desirable. Move to Queens, NYC Tons of asians, indians, hispanics, etc. Especially around jackson heights.
Author Labster12 Posted August 30, 2010 Author Posted August 30, 2010 Yea they have Indians around Jackson Heights but are they the really conservative prick uptight inbred arranged marriages ones or are they the more Americanized ones which I have a pretty tough time finding. I hate this part of Indian culture, like Indian parents would accept marriages with a White but kids are looked down upon for dating Blacks or Hispanics. PS: I do a lot with my life, but when I want a question answered or a poll and survey done I ask it to death till I get the answer I desire.
USMCHokie Posted August 30, 2010 Posted August 30, 2010 PS: I do a lot with my life, but when I want a question answered or a poll and survey done I ask it to death till I get the answer I desire. So you're saying that you want a bunch of strangers on the internet to blow sunshine up your ass and tell you what you want to hear to make you feel better about yourself...? What is this elusive "answer" that you desire...? What is it you want to hear from all of us? That way, I can craft a mass memorandum to the fine people of LS so they know exactly what they should be telling you...
Author Labster12 Posted August 30, 2010 Author Posted August 30, 2010 (edited) So you're saying that you want a bunch of strangers on the internet to blow sunshine up your ass and tell you what you want to hear to make you feel better about yourself...? What is this elusive "answer" that you desire...? What is it you want to hear from all of us? That way, I can craft a mass memorandum to the fine people of LS so they know exactly what they should be telling you... Absolutely nothing.. Wanted to know where in the US Indians and interracial dating would be common or not out of the norm to see Indian guys with latinas or Asian girls but that is just too much to ask. Eitherways, screw this topic. It does suck being a part of an inbred culture with an inbred caste system. HEY INTERRACIAL DATING IS WRONG BUT AS LONG AS SHE IS WHITE IT IS ALL RIGHT! What really had me ticked off was how everyone was ALL over me when I asked that question, that made me throw out quite the sentence. Edited August 30, 2010 by Labster12
stillafool Posted August 30, 2010 Posted August 30, 2010 It seems the only race of women who only want their own race of men are african american women.
Author Labster12 Posted August 30, 2010 Author Posted August 30, 2010 It seems the only race of women who only want their own race of men are african american women. ya but there is this stereotype going around about how Black men are leaving Black women
Author Labster12 Posted August 30, 2010 Author Posted August 30, 2010 also, USMCHokie, that came out wrong from me, the answer I desire part is just, well implying bias, eitherways, I came to realization today and I find that I can really close the book on this once and for all. I will post a topic on that realization.
stillafool Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 ya but there is this stereotype going around about how Black men are leaving Black women Maybe so, but their women definitely still desire ONLY them.
Author Labster12 Posted August 31, 2010 Author Posted August 31, 2010 (edited) Maybe so, but their women definitely still desire ONLY them. I went to a mostly Black high school, most Black girls were really open minded into dating Asian and White and even Hispanic guys. Almost hooked up with one in high school, would have been my first girlfriend but her parents put a stop to it because of what they heard about the Sparkle Rai case. Nothing against Black guys, most of my friends are Black guys. I just notice that a lot of Black men would date women of other races and avoid Black women but AS SOON as they see a non-Black man with a Black woman, most would turn their eyes right to the Black girl and start giving her flak for it. My limited experience but some of my Black friends who are girls have told me the same thing. And I just commented on this thread..... V_V Edited August 31, 2010 by Labster12
Bogo123 Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 Yea they have Indians around Jackson Heights but are they the really conservative prick uptight inbred arranged marriages ones or are they the more Americanized ones which I have a pretty tough time finding. I hate this part of Indian culture, like Indian parents would accept marriages with a White but kids are looked down upon for dating Blacks or Hispanics. PS: I do a lot with my life, but when I want a question answered or a poll and survey done I ask it to death till I get the answer I desire. All kinds of Indians in jackson heights. You might get flack from your own parents or family, which you have to deal with obviously. But from people out in public in NYC no one will care. There's tons of carribean indians in the city (trinidad, guyanese, etc) that date black and hispanic women.
U1987 Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 I live in a predominately Asian neighborhood, almost all of the girls are dating asian guys. I rather think it's the demographic rather than a preference. Were they born and raised in America or are they from their home countries though?
xpaperxcutx Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 Were they born and raised in America or are they from their home countries though? It's a mix of both.
xpaperxcutx Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 Yea they have Indians around Jackson Heights but are they the really conservative prick uptight inbred arranged marriages ones or are they the more Americanized ones which I have a pretty tough time finding. I hate this part of Indian culture, like Indian parents would accept marriages with a White but kids are looked down upon for dating Blacks or Hispanics. PS: I do a lot with my life, but when I want a question answered or a poll and survey done I ask it to death till I get the answer I desire. Labster, what type do you normally go for? I don't want to screen the last 5 pages of posts, but what kind of women do you want to date, race wise?
Author Labster12 Posted August 31, 2010 Author Posted August 31, 2010 Labster, what type do you normally go for? I don't want to screen the last 5 pages of posts, but what kind of women do you want to date, race wise? Race and ethnicity wise? Mainly Indian girls, Italian girls, Latinas, biracial Black girls, and Asian girls but mainly Indian girls, Asian girls and Latinas.
zxvf Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 Personally I think there are a couple of reasons, I'm going to throw my two cents here. I'm a male Asian, grown up in Canada, pretty much been classified as more white than my white friends. My observations has been this: most Asians that just came here are not accustomed to the culture, and thus they are more "closed", "shy", and "cheap" (Sorry guys), where as Asian guys who are accustomed to the culture tends to not have those characteristics. Couple of the things I've seen back at my old high school: the "Asian" Asian guys prefers Asian girls, the "White" Asian guys prefers White girls, but would date Asians, the "Asian" Asian girls prefers.... (I don't really know, never really seem them without their calculus text or reading materials) the "White" Asian girls prefers White guys hands down. That's how I see it, but personally I would date a white girl over an Asian girl any day, they are just more fun to be with. (I don't get DDR, drink bubble tea, or care for an Asian cellphone)
USMCHokie Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 Couple of the things I've seen back at my old high school: the "Asian" Asian guys prefers Asian girls, the "White" Asian guys prefers White girls, but would date Asians, the "Asian" Asian girls prefers.... (I don't really know, never really seem them without their calculus text or reading materials) the "White" Asian girls prefers White guys hands down. These statements are all accurate in my experience.
xpaperxcutx Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 Personally I think there are a couple of reasons, I'm going to throw my two cents here. I'm a male Asian, grown up in Canada, pretty much been classified as more white than my white friends. My observations has been this: most Asians that just came here are not accustomed to the culture, and thus they are more "closed", "shy", and "cheap" (Sorry guys), where as Asian guys who are accustomed to the culture tends to not have those characteristics. Couple of the things I've seen back at my old high school: the "Asian" Asian guys prefers Asian girls, the "White" Asian guys prefers White girls, but would date Asians, the "Asian" Asian girls prefers.... (I don't really know, never really seem them without their calculus text or reading materials) the "White" Asian girls prefers White guys hands down. That's how I see it, but personally I would date a white girl over an Asian girl any day, they are just more fun to be with. (I don't get DDR, drink bubble tea, or care for an Asian cellphone) LMAO this poster had me laughing so hard... but I can't deny how accurate this is... I don't care for bubble tea, but Asian cellphones are mad cute!
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