Asian American girls don't want Asian guys, how true is this in your area

[LondonS]

Regular men do NOT want Asian girls... they are inferior, a minority in the USA...

Here comes another retarded comment from this guy !!

[Chubbi]

From where I live, many many people date outside their population group. It goes like this: 1) Asian women- white male 2) Black woman- white male 3) white female- black male and then on and on. Of course, most whites date other whites, but for minorities on campus, interracial dating seems very high for Asians and blacks. This is actual dating and in relationships. Not so much for las latinas, Indians, etc..

Edited August 29, 2010 by Chubbi

[NYCGirly]

I have a good friend who is Korean and for the most part, she told me she preferred dating white men as sort of a status thing (). She claimed most of the Asian guys she knew were too short for her taste. Plus she bought into the whole small penis stereotype.

 

Outside of that, I live in NYC and I concur with the other New Yorkers on this thread that I mostly see Asian-Asian couples. I, at one point, lived with two Asian girls and I only saw them with Asian guys. Though, secretly, I found out that one of them would answer ads on CL for white sugardaddies with a fetish for young Asian girls. Now that sort of "coupling" in NYC is pretty common.

[zengirl]

I usually just count myself as Asian, or just say I'm half Asian, very rarely do I say I'm white. I have never met my white father, was raised solely by my Asian mom, so it is hard to identify with that side of me. I also look mostly white, btw, but I have noticed that a lot of people mistake me for Mexican or Native American.

 

Ah, see, I'm not close at all to my Japanese father. I mean, I saw him a bit growing up, but he wasn't really a father figure. More like an uncle. I'm close to some of my Japanese family, but definitely much closer to my Mom and Step-father's family. They're both white. So, maybe why I tend to identify more "white" than Asian. I look like if you put my freckled-strawberry blond haired-blue eyed mother through a manga comic machine or something. We look the same but with different coloring, though I'm still light skinned enough to have gotten lots of oohs and ahhs in whitening-cream obsessed Korea. I have big "Western" eyes and my hair is brown, not black, so that's usually what throws people off. I've never been mistaken for any race other than the two I am (if you count white as a big darn mix).

Edited August 29, 2010 by zengirl

[Labster12]

They would probably think you're Mexican, tbh. I'm sure you would fare well.

 

I always heard Mexicans were most open to dating Indians and Puerto Ricans hated us the most. My girlfriend thought all Indian males were short and dark O_O.

[Labster12]

:rolleyes:OP, give it up.. stick with the Indians..

 

So odd but somehow you crack me up, you really have me laughing xD.

[Labster12]

Very odd but the thing is, I never really liked Asian girls for their looks. Somehow the ones I came into contact with were more quiet and came off as being a lot calmer which kind of turned me on. In terms of looks, I either liked Indian girls or girls who resemble Indian girls, like Latinas (don't know any other group). I prefer North Indian girls though, the light skin type. Could not get any attraction for the darker ones, poor me.

[lso802]

Dude. I hope you're not relocating only for the ladies. You are looking at other aspects like cost of living, job prospects, etc...?

[Labster12]

Dude. I hope you're not relocating only for the ladies. You are looking at other aspects like cost of living, job prospects, etc...?

 

Honestly, I could not live in a place like Massachusetts or Vermont which is 95 percent White. Unless Italians are more prominent there but then again I heard from my White friends that the Italians up North are pretty racist against non-Whites (especially Indians).

 

I would like a place like NYC. Not a place that is 80 percent Latino but at least 10 to 20 percent Hispanic, more realistic chance of hooking up with a Latina (if I still need to do so). Definitely not the deep south where 98 percent of the girls are either Black or White and not too open to dating interracial.

Edited August 29, 2010 by Labster12

[fwang]

Regular men do NOT want Asian girls... they are inferior, a minority in the USA...

 

I guess that's a typical way of thinking for people living in my state. Living there for almost one year, I just can't stop thinking of getting out of this place every second.

 

I think it also has much to do with the culture thing. Hanging out with a lot of European, especially people from north Europe, I can feel that they are more tolerant toward people from different races. And I saw a lot of Asian girl +White guys in Europe.

[Labster12]

I can't wait to get out of the state I am in....

[tami-chan]

I am from the East coast and when I am in the US ( I lived in different countries, growing up) I lived in a predominantly "white' neighborhood -with a few Asians and Indians (this IS NJ, after all!) here and there, and most of my Asian friends date fellow Asians. Although, if they have to date outside of their "race" , most would date "white" guys. I am Asian (of Japanese descent), I was married to a white guy and my BF now is a white guy. I had crushes on Asian guys, though. I don't think I ever made a a conscious decision to marry someone from a certain race.

 

BTW, dating and marrying are two different things. Many Asians might date a "loser" but would rarely marry one. Asian mothers are a formidable force to reckon with-a "loser" just won't cut it. But then again, maybe this is just amongst Asians I know.

[Labster12]

I am from the East coast and when I am in the US ( I lived in different countries, growing up) I lived in a predominantly "white' neighborhood -with a few Asians and Indians (this IS NJ, after all!) here and there, and most of my Asian friends date fellow Asians. Although, if they have to date outside of their "race" , most would date "white" guys. I am Asian (of Japanese descent), I was married to a white guy and my BF now is a white guy. I had crushes on Asian guys, though. I don't think I ever made a a conscious decision to marry someone from a certain race.

 

BTW, dating and marrying are two different things. Many Asians might date a "loser" but would rarely marry one. Asian mothers are a formidable force to reckon with-a "loser" just won't cut it. But then again, maybe this is just amongst Asians I know.

 

How rare are Indian - Asian relationships?

[LisaLee]

I've never been mistaken for any race other than the two I am (if you count white as a big darn mix).

 

That is interesting! People guess me to be part Mexican before anything else, especially when I tell them I am from Texas.

 

Although, if they have to date outside of their "race" , most would date "white" guys.

 

This is interesting as well... I grew up in a neighborhood that had a large Korean population... and by large population I mean mostly Korean women who married American army men. However, the people who were part black part Korean easily outnumbered us who were part white.

 

Also, because of geography several of my friends went on to have Hispanic partners.

Edited August 30, 2010 by LisaLee

[taiko]

This is interesting as well... I grew up in a neighborhood that had a large Korean population... and by large population I mean mostly Korean women who married American army men. However, the people who were part black part Korean easily outnumbered us who were part white.

 

Also, because of geography several of my friends went on to have Hispanic partners.

Or perhaps they just stood out more at a glance?

[LisaLee]

Or perhaps they just stood out more at a glance?

 

That may be, but I don't think so... I knew most of the kids from Korean school as well as our moms socializing. It always seemed to me more there were more black Koreans... they were all so fricking gorgeous, too...

[xpaperxcutx]

BTW, dating and marrying are two different things. Many Asians might date a "loser" but would rarely marry one. Asian mothers are a formidable force to reckon with-a "loser" just won't cut it. But then again, maybe this is just amongst Asians I know.

 

I have to emphasis this part right here.

 

 

I know for a fact that most Asian females do not " settle". They can date who they want, even outside their race, but half the time they will marry within their own race. Especially those from traditional families or with an extended family background, they're expected to marry someone who's well off, over settling for a high school sweetheart.

[jamesum]

Technically Im Asian, but I have zero interest in Asian women because they tend to be more materialistic than other women.

 

The general principle of Asian women is this: "Unless he is a doctor, he isnt worth my time."

 

Fortunately my family isnt so traditional, so my parents arent teaching my sister to become a filthy gold-digger.

Edited August 30, 2010 by jamesum

[taiko]

I have to emphasis this part right here.

 

 

I know for a fact that most Asian females do not " settle". They can date who they want, even outside their race, but half the time they will marry within their own race. Especially those from traditional families or with an extended family background, they're expected to marry someone who's well off, over settling for a high school sweetheart.

Which could provide a reason for the Black GIs babies. After getting pregnant she would be stuck and no going back to a Korean for her. She would have to make or break with the sevice man husband. Koreans have even taken to contracting out services for the US Military to Filipino contractors in the recent past so less Korean American couple are coming from that particular source.

 

But then we are talking Koreans in Korea and not Korean Americans as part of the 50% Asian American women marrying a different ethnic group or race.

[xpaperxcutx]

Which could provide a reason for the Black GIs babies. After getting pregnant she would be stuck and no going back to a Korean for her. She would have to make or break with the sevice man husband. Koreans have even taken to contracting out services for the US Military to Filipino contractors in the recent past so less Korean American couple are coming from that particular source.

 

But then we are talking Koreans in Korea and not Korean Americans as part of the 50% Asian American women marrying a different ethnic group or race.

 

I'm not Korean, but I am well aware that Asian countries with US bases are more likely to have interracial relationships. Korea, Japan, Vietnam ( Vietnam War), etc.

 

The Chinese have only begun the interracial game. If this was the 90s, you would not see that much Chinese people dating or marrying outside their race.

[yah]

I think most Asian girls are going out with Asian guys. I'm an outlier though.

[USMCHokie]

I think most Asian girls are going out with Asian guys. I'm an outlier though.

 

So you're an Asian girl that goes out with non-Asian guys...?

[Labster12]

so how are interracial relationships involving Asian Indians in your area?

[USMCHokie]

so how are interracial relationships involving Asian Indians in your area?

 

What does that girl you're dating think of your obsession with race...? Have you asked her what she thinks about dating an Indian guy...? Perhaps it'd be worth a try...

[FL Lady]

What does that girl you're dating think of your obsession with race...? Have you asked her what she thinks about dating an Indian guy...? Perhaps it'd be worth a try...

 

Agreed. This topic is getting overkill.