Asian American girls don't want Asian guys, how true is this in your area

[Labster12]

I watched a video on youtube which talked about why Asian girls prefer White guys over Asian guys. A friend of mines who used to live in the deep south but moved to Southern Cal over 2 years ago told me on facebook that a large majority of all Asian girls out there prefer to date White guys over Asian guys and usually date White guys over Asian guys. He told me that Latinas are more open minded but a majority still date Hispanic guys.

 

Now my friend said that out of the 10 Asian girls he has talked to out in Southern Cal (my friend is White by the way), all of them have had a lot of negative things to say about Asian guys and many said they would not date one. My Korean friend said that most Asian girls would much rather date an average White guy over a highly qualified Asian guy. Of course he has now "abandoned" Asian women and now exclusively dates non-Asian women.

 

Anyways, how true is this stereotype in your area that Asian American girls hate Asian guys? I heard it quite a lot on the internet, you can even google it and some results will come up.

[Bogo123]

I see way more asian girl/asian guy couples than asian girl/white guy couples. So I don't think its true.

[lso802]

I see way more asian girl/asian guy couples than asian girl/white guy couples. So I don't think its true.

 

Same here. It may depend on location though.

[Labster12]

I went to NYC this past summer and I did not even see Asian girl - White guy that often, most of the pretty looking Asian girls I saw were with Asian guys.

 

I guess it must be true on the West Coast then.

[fwang]

That's not true.

 

In the place I live, south of USA, I seldom see Asian girls with white guys. Maybe there are 1 couple out of 10.

 

For Asian guys, appearance is the most important thing. That might be the reason that Asian American girls hate Asian guys. JK

[alexlakeman]

Regular men do NOT want Asian girls... they are inferior, a minority in the USA...

[Little Bird]

Regular men do NOT want Asian girls... they are inferior, a minority in the USA...

 

Are you for real?

 

To the OP, I concur with the others, I sometimes see Asian women coupled with White men, but I more often see the Asian/Asian partners. I guess it depends on where you are geographically.

[OliveOyl]

Regular men do NOT want Asian girls... they are inferior, a minority in the USA...

 

What kind of comment is this?

 

And there is no such thing as "regular".

 

Sheesh.

[LisaLee]

Are you for real?

 

To the OP, I concur with the others, I sometimes see Asian women coupled with White men, but I more often see the Asian/Asian partners. I guess it depends on where you are geographically.

 

 

My brother, who is one of those Eurasians who looks full Asian, always ends up with Mexican girls. He's never even dated a white or Asian girl before, just Mexicans. Of course it helps that he lives in a city that is 80% Hispanic.

[Citizen Erased]

Are you inferring that because someone is Asian, they should automatically go for an Asian partner? That sounds kind of ignorant to me. Finding someone of a different culture to you that you're attracted to doesn't mean you hate people of your culture, that you're choosing another culture over your own because you disdain it. It just means you found someone you're attracted to.

[lso802]

Asians are a minority group. That doesn't make them inferior. I don't even want to know what you consider "regular" people.

[Labster12]

My brother, who is one of those Eurasians who looks full Asian, always ends up with Mexican girls. He's never even dated a white or Asian girl before, just Mexicans. Of course it helps that he lives in a city that is 80% Hispanic.

 

Any cities like that, also how would an Indian guy fare in those cities?

[Mad Max]

Here in New York, Asians girls generally stick with Asian guys. I have seen very few Asian girl/White guy relationships.

[xpaperxcutx]

I live in a predominately Asian neighborhood, almost all of the girls are dating asian guys. I rather think it's the demographic rather than a preference.

[Labster12]

Here in the deep south, most of the population is Black and White. Interracial relationships are rare and usually most Hispanics and Asians are single until they move out of this town and then they date.

 

I have never seen an Asian girl - Asian guy couple in high school but I have seen Asian girl - White guy in various cases, mainly because

 

1. Asian guys are hard to come across

2. The ones who are down here are academically oriented so they usually don't date in high school

[LisaLee]

Any cities like that, also how would an Indian guy fare in those cities?

 

They would probably think you're Mexican, tbh. I'm sure you would fare well.

[TaurusTerp]

I live in a predominately Asian neighborhood, almost all of the girls are dating asian guys. I rather think it's the demographic rather than a preference.

 

What neighborhood, if I may ask? I might be moving to NYC next year and am still getting the lay of the land as I decide where to live.

[xpaperxcutx]

What neighborhood, if I may ask? I might be moving to NYC next year and am still getting the lay of the land as I decide where to live.

 

Lol... I prefer not to disclose my location, but Queens and inner Brooklyn have the biggest Asian communities asides from Chinatown in Manhattan.

[USMCHokie]

Anyways, how true is this stereotype in your area that Asian American girls hate Asian guys?

 

I grew up and always lived in a predominantly white area...suburbs of northeast MD and the DC metro area...Asian women tended to favor white men...but of course there were Asian-Asian couples as well...

 

But who cares...?

[TaurusTerp]

Lol... I prefer not to disclose my location, but Queens and inner Brooklyn have the biggest Asian communities asides from Chinatown in Manhattan.

 

Stalking plan fails again

[alexlakeman]

:rolleyes:OP, give it up.. stick with the Indians..

[ViciousViolet]

:rolleyes:OP, give it up.. stick with the Indians..

 

LMAO, you're obsessed. You come into every interracial thread and share your racist opinion:rolleyes:. If you don't agree with it, ignore the thread. Why is it so hard for you to stay out of where you're not wanted? Be gone! GTFO.

 

As for you OP, I only know a handful of Asian girl/White guy couples, but it may depend on nationality. Japanese female/White male couples are the most common of all interracial marriages. Where I live, most Asians are from Vietnam and they tend to marry within their culture.

[zengirl]

I never know whether to count myself as Asian (I'm halfsies, but I look mostly white). I didn't used to dig Asian guys at all -- it was really rare to see one I find attractive. They are much more physically attractive to me after being in Korea for a year, oddly. I think it just depends on what you get used to looking at to a degree. I see cute Asian guys all the time now. It's weird. (It's still the tall, skinny, high-cheekbones ones I like, though, like cute, nerdy Japanese/Korean fellows.)

 

I'm dating someone who happens to be white now (though grandmother was Chinese, but he's a blond blue-eyed white guy who doesn't seem to have many of her genes) but I've dated an Asian guy before.

 

Regular men do NOT want Asian girls... they are inferior, a minority in the USA...

 

Besides the fact that this is racist (the "inferior") and strange to say. . . it's also way not true. Many groups of Asian girls -- Koreans and Japanese in particular -- are generally thin, pretty, and adorable, and all sorts of men seem to go gaga for them. Maybe not the ones who want them particularly curvy, though you can be a bit curvy and Asian (proportionally curvy).

 

I feel 10000x prettier now that I'm back in America. I'm a pretty girl but hanging with Korean gals day in day out definitely changes your sense of beauty. I'm sure they're not everybody's cuppa, but certain groups of Asian girls are positively gorgeous on average. "Asian" is a huge racial marker, though, as is "White."

[LisaLee]

I never know whether to count myself as Asian (I'm halfsies, but I look mostly white).

 

I usually just count myself as Asian, or just say I'm half Asian, very rarely do I say I'm white. I have never met my white father, was raised solely by my Asian mom, so it is hard to identify with that side of me. I also look mostly white, btw, but I have noticed that a lot of people mistake me for Mexican or Native American.

[taiko]

I watched a video on youtube which talked about why Asian girls prefer White guys over Asian guys. A friend of mines who used to live in the deep south but moved to Southern Cal over 2 years ago told me on facebook that a large majority of all Asian girls out there prefer to date White guys over Asian guys and usually date White guys over Asian guys. He told me that Latinas are more open minded but a majority still date Hispanic guys.

 

Now my friend said that out of the 10 Asian girls he has talked to out in Southern Cal (my friend is White by the way), all of them have had a lot of negative things to say about Asian guys and many said they would not date one. My Korean friend said that most Asian girls would much rather date an average White guy over a highly qualified Asian guy. Of course he has now "abandoned" Asian women and now exclusively dates non-Asian women.

 

Anyways, how true is this stereotype in your area that Asian American girls hate Asian guys? I heard it quite a lot on the internet, you can even google it and some results will come up.

 

Your white friend in California doesn't have a valid sample. The girls he comes in contact with are in competition with her sisters for his attention. Telling him that she prefers white boys makes her more attractive to him then the girl who says daddy will never approve. Then their are the guys to consider, after a girl has been with a White Boy or horrors upon horrors a Black Man then she is spoiled and not good enough for his family.

 

Latinas are a different case. Since Columbus and Cortez the mostly White and the partially Native American people have been crossing that divide. Check out all the blonds on Mexican TV if you ever get the chance.

 

If enough people of different races are around then men and women of the different groups will mix. In some cases one family or both will try to retain some mysterious cultural heritage and the rate of mixture will be lower. Normally as the generations pass this influence lessens. So a notoriously self contained culture like Japanese who now have been in America for multiple generations will have the highest proportion of its members in cross ethnic or racial relationships. Meamwhile new immigrants from Vietnam where it was a badge of honor to grab a Frenchman three generations ago in proportion to the Japanese Americans will stay with in their group.

 

There have not been enough Indians in America long enough to make valid observations to make generalizations or answer your questions. Perhaps if you ask about the UK with its larger South Asian citizenship.