LostInTurn Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 So, many of you know my story. Many of you know my future boyfriend fears / doubts. I have gained much reassurance via LS and thank you. I do want to sharer a story of mine though and you can let me know what you think. Around mid day yesterday, I started getting stressed and over thinking. Last night my friend asked me if I wanted to go out with him and some of his friends. I didn't really want to and I was heavily debating not going. Anyway... he came and picked me up. We met up with some of his friends and had drinks. We left the restaurant and went to a local bar. No big deal. I was having a blast. One of my friends who has been seeing me through this whole ordeal... the tears, the anxiety, the constant phone calls was at the second place we went to. I was all smiles and laughing. I think it must have been reassuring for him to see me this way. I had a great time. I feel good today (thus far) I hope I stay in this mindset. P.S. for those of you who have fears about never finding someone who can give you what your ex gave. One of my good friends last night kept telling me I was amazing and beautiful. There are good hearted people out there.
bonpaw2008 Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 Glad you guys both had a good night. Lost I also have gained small victories in hearing the praises of others, glad that it helped. Just remember that now you need to START BELIEVING it, get your self-esteem back so you won't need to contact him for that worthiness. xoxo
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