Butchannon Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 My ex-WGF has lied to me one more time. We and our baby supposed to meet yesterday and spend the weekend together. She called me 15 minutes before I supposed to arrive and told me that our baby has got high fever in a couple of minutes! :roll: She sent me texts all day before (she didn't send me any text for 2 months) of how much she loves me so I wouldn't be so mad at her when she would cancel. I called her when I arrived to the train station at her place and argued with her. She didn't care where would I sleep, if I could get home (I thought there were no trains back to my place, but luckily there was one last). She didn't call to ask me how I am, nothing. I drove for 3 hours in each direction!! It's over now with her, I feel some sort of relief. I said I couldn't take it anymore. It wasn't first time I came there for nothing. She cheated on me with a lot of guys (even with my taxi driver to their place), she sent naked pictures, she gave me STDs, I had to take paternity test because I didn't know if child was mine, I lost my income because I took paternity leave to be with them and when I told her to leave because of her cheating, she demanded child support and custody, so I lost everything. Today I supposed to have visitations at their place but I stayed home. I wouldn't ever go to their place again, they treat me like crap. I will demand custody/visitations at my place on court next week. I will move on and find myself a girlfriend which will treat me so much better. Can't wait to begin with my new life and leave all that crap behind me. I just can't understand how some people can be like that but it isn't my business anymore, her next boyfriend will have to handle it.
Hazyhead Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 Butch, life with her must have left you constantly anxious and stressed. I think you've made the right decision but I'm so sorry for your pain right now. You'll move forward from her and still be the great dad you seem to already be.
Bryanp Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 It is about time. She gave you STD's, screwed a bunch of other men and even screwed your taxi driver. Enough is enough. She continued over and over again to play you for a fool. I am glad that you finally saw the light. In the future you will look back and wondered why you wasted so much time on her. You are certainly the right thing. Good luck.
Chrome Barracuda Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 ...It was inevitable. I was wondering how long are you gonna tolerate her and her families crap! Now it's time to lawyer up, ignore them and fight for your kid. She wont win, her parents wont win, in a court of law. You need to pull out all the stops. I dont care what she does to make you change your mind. You need to go all out and win. Do whatever it takes.
Darren Steez Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 You've got to be strong and end this cycle, no doubt she'll start up again with the calls and texts trying to break you down but in no uncertain terms you tell her it's all over, she's not even a friend dude so no need for conversations, be a cold hard mofo and move on with your life!
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