Dante311 Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 Hi Leigh, you sound amazing. move to boston. come meet me. lol i'm looking for a woman who is confident in herself (you should work on being content/confident in your appearance though... that's what attracts guys) - I detect confidence, but it's on shaky grounds. My pic is in that rate your appearance thread. now come find me lol in all seriousness though... i'm 6'1" with a very good body.. and I do notice I get checked out... friends notice it too... but I don't let that get to my head. I don't go for women who are 9's or 10's... I am VERY attracted to 6's, 7's, and 8's honestly. and I've been rated a 7 or 8 by many women. personally.. I think I'm a 5 or 6 tho
somedude81 Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 So Leigh 87, what's wrong with average guys?
BS76 Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 In America, any woman who isn't really fat considers herself a supermodel and goddess. lol, I wish we had a rep system. I'd give you points for that one
Sphere Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 I'm an attractive man and I go for a woman who I have connection. Sometimes my friends say "Oh man you can so much better", and my response is "Maybe I don't want to do any better". There is no such thing as a league system, no one is below or higher than you. League tables are for the insecure, the unadventrous and the weak. Smash the leagues in your head up and go for whatever you desire.
Author Leigh 87 Posted August 28, 2010 Author Posted August 28, 2010 lol, I live in SYdney, Australia, otherwise I would have loved to have met u, lol! if only meeting guys in real life was as easy.............. And I do NOT mind average guys, actually. I am actually not attracted to hot ones, normally,probably because I assume that they r out of my league, so I never even get it into my head that I want them. I deff do not like model type guys, actually. In fact, a very hot PT at my gym recently said I had a hot body, and etc, so until he said that ( and asked if I was single), I had NO thoughts about him, in terms of thinking he was hot. I could objectively see he was very hot, but with people like that, I have no attraction initially, cos they r too good looking. I prefer more normal guys. I think I am in the position of attracting more normal guy, however, could get a slightly above average one if they fell for my AWESOME personal;ity.... With me, I am an all around good package... *AHEM*, I mean, I am not a model, however, I am reasonable, about a 7 I think, ( 6 without mascara LOL), but I have a good life plan, and reasonably intelligent, and do not lack in other areas. I have a good sort of body, and my aside from my noce, my face has nothing offensive about it. Although I am getting my teeth whitened ASAP lol, as a nice smile would hel me feel mroe confident:) Teeth are straight at least...
that girl Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 Looks are subjective and what one person thinks is super hot another person might consider plain. Personally I think Anna Paquin is cute with a great body regardless of her gap teeth. Stephen Moyer is also cute with a great body. They seem equally matched to me. Leigh I think what you need to work on is your self esteem rather than your looks.
Gypsy_Soul Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 Well, attractiveness merely 'attracts', but personality is what keeps someone around. This holds true for both genders. You took the words right out of my fingertips. Attraction is what first attracts the other to you, but the secrets to keep them around are something else and one of them is personality.
Yamaha Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 I'm an attractive man and I go for a woman who I have connection. Sometimes my friends say "Oh man you can so much better", and my response is "Maybe I don't want to do any better". There is no such thing as a league system, no one is below or higher than you. League tables are for the insecure, the unadventrous and the weak. Smash the leagues in your head up and go for whatever you desire. Amen, bro..... A connection means sooooo much more than looks and this ranking system is just dumb and meaningless. Go for who makes you happy!!!!!!
jamesum Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 lol, I live in SYdney, Australia Havent you heard about Hugh Jackman and his 98-year-old wife?
Gypsy_Soul Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 Havent you heard about Hugh Jackman and his 98-year-old wife? Hahaha! Yea remember Mae West? She was a silver fox at her elderly age with young muscle men devoted to her.
jamesum Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 Hahaha! Yea remember Mae West? She was a silver fox at her elderly age with young muscle men devoted to her. How about Madonna and her hot whore-men? If anyone notice, one thing all those women have in common is that they are all women with strong character aka dragon ladies.
Dante311 Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 In America, any woman who isn't really fat considers herself a supermodel and goddess. True & bloody brilliant. i think I'm in love with you Warlord (nohomo) LOL
The Collector Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 I haven't read this thread, but speaking for myself, yes. But it's no way enough on its own.
Mad Max Posted August 29, 2010 Posted August 29, 2010 Everyone's definition of attractive is different. Guys like attractive women and women like attractive women. What they think is attractive is not always the same.
bac Posted August 29, 2010 Posted August 29, 2010 How old are you? How old guys are you looking for? If you are young, you can typically have older attractive guys with ease. Also, many attractive guys are not so picky as plain guys.
Green Posted August 29, 2010 Posted August 29, 2010 I consider myself attractive. I don't really care what other people think of a girl as long as I find her attractive. I consider girls with nice shaped breasts, wide hips (nice butt) and thin waist attractive for the most part. I also like pale skin and a girl who looks good to me with very little or no make up. Mostly I like white girls too. (but I'm white)
Author Leigh 87 Posted August 29, 2010 Author Posted August 29, 2010 oh YAY, I think I will seek out some attractive older guys. Actually I tend to LIKE older guys. More than younger guys. I am 23, and the guys I like tend to be at least 30, or late 20's......... but yay. So attractive older guys would like a nice, fair, blond hair blue eyes girl with large boobs like myself? I hope so:) Guys have to really want me, for me to want them... as in, I like my life, and I do not NEED a guy, and I only WANT a guy who wants me badly. Older guys prob crave younger decent looking girls, so they may want me more than younger guys, or can get 19 yr old perky girls easier than older guys.....
Author Leigh 87 Posted August 29, 2010 Author Posted August 29, 2010 Mad max, you are cute lol, is that your pic? i do not have pre determined guys I go for, but I just know when I see them, it is abou their eyes and face. Just wanted to let you know that your face is one that I am attracted to haha, it is always nice to recieve compliments:)
BlackLovely Posted August 29, 2010 Posted August 29, 2010 "Attractive" is a relative term. You could not line up all the women in the world in order of attractiveness and have every man agree on the order. One of the things I notice when I'm out girl-watching with my friends is that we are all attracted to different women. You don't need every guy in the world to think you're beautiful; you only need one. This is so true. I would like to add that self esteem is the most important thing. You need to love YOURSELF. You sound attractive to me. Heavy does not equal unattractive; I am 5'4 and I wear a size 12. Let's just say that I weigh much more than you do. Like many black women, I have a round bubble butt. I also have a nice rack and a little pot belly. I do not find myself remarkable or hot. I'm only "cute". However, I never had a problem meeting men when I was single.
somuchforthat Posted August 29, 2010 Posted August 29, 2010 my ex wasnt the thinnest gal nor was she morbidy obese she was fine the way she was to me! She always dressed well to kinda hide her chubbyness. I didnt ever have a problem with it but she was self conscious on occasion, i always told her i like you for you and nothing else! Besides whenever we would hug and kiss it was awsome she was like a live teddy bear lol
Mad Max Posted August 29, 2010 Posted August 29, 2010 Mad max, you are cute lol, is that your pic? i do not have pre determined guys I go for, but I just know when I see them, it is abou their eyes and face. Just wanted to let you know that your face is one that I am attracted to haha, it is always nice to recieve compliments:) Sorry, it's not me.
Green Posted August 29, 2010 Posted August 29, 2010 oh YAY, I think I will seek out some attractive older guys. Don't worry older guys will seek you although you may or may not find them attractive. Actually I tend to LIKE older guys. More than younger guys. I am 23, and the guys I like tend to be at least 30, or late 20's......... Most women like guys in that age range. but yay. So attractive older guys would like a nice, fair, blond hair blue eyes girl with large boobs like myself? I hope so:) My gf is a nice, fair skinned, blond blue eyed girl with perfect breasts so I would say thats my type. Not every guy is into that but enough are that you should have no problems. Guys have to really want me, for me to want them... as in, I like my life, and I do not NEED a guy, and I only WANT a guy who wants me badly. I personaly believe in creating interest in a woman I romanticly want by showing that I REALLY want her and laying it all on the table to show my confidence and build attraction. Older guys prob crave younger decent looking girls, so they may want me more than younger guys, or can get 19 yr old perky girls easier than older guys..... I crave attractive girls. women in their 40's who are really attractive are very rare. If you want to build a family too you're going to be more likely to go after girls who are in ther twenties. 19 year old girls are not hard to get and younger guys have very few advantages when compared to an older guy who is physicaly attractive.
sartrelazyeye Posted October 16, 2010 Posted October 16, 2010 In America, any woman who isn't really fat considers herself a supermodel and goddess. don't be a douche-bag. the girl has a really low self-esteem; she obviously does not think that she is a "supermodel"/"goddess".
somedude81 Posted October 16, 2010 Posted October 16, 2010 don't be a douche-bag. the girl has a really low self-esteem; she obviously does not think that she is a "supermodel"/"goddess". Oy vey! Did you really need to bump this thread up?
callingyouuu Posted October 16, 2010 Posted October 16, 2010 Guys have to really want me, for me to want them... as in, I like my life, and I do not NEED a guy, and I only WANT a guy who wants me badly. That's a bit dangerous...both for you and the other guy. Just sayin'.
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