lilyy.12 Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 So yes i have a bf 17 months together.BUTT. our relationship has being going from bad to worse. he doesnt have a car,job so we always have to relyon his parents. whe he comes to my house his dad brings him& we are 20 yrs old by the way. his legal situation is not goin very well s oI understand all of this, "problems" . Hi dad is trying(so he says) to get his imigrations situation fixed.ive waited for over a year yet nothing happens. i am starting to dislke his WHOLE family because every time he ask his mom "so what should i do I wanna be someon in this life etc" his mom always says: " well wait till you brother is 21 so he can help you" and his brother is barely 16 im like yeah very smart lady wait till he's like 30 so he can grow up! he pays for his college from lil side jobs he has but his parents dont help him at all theyre like well work & in my mind I say "well if it wasnt becasue of u & your irresposibilities he woulve never been in this imigration problem" but i rather not say anything. i don know what to do i do care for him but im just tired of always being he one taking us everywhere(being the guy) & always covering up for him with my family because my family doesnt know they think hes just lazy or a duchbag & everyday they remind me of that :S in addition,he at first didnt want me to geta job i dont know why.he became more & more insecure as i got new thigs such as car,job etc. I dont what to sound materialistic but ugh i dont know if im a monster I ate it because the yr we been together he hasnt met my whole family from mexico(he cant) & i keep making up excuses & getting all the bullets. so tell wha would you do in this situation
SpanksTheMonkey Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 So yes i have a bf 17 months together.BUTT. our relationship has being going from bad to worse. he doesnt have a car,job so we always have to relyon his parents. whe he comes to my house his dad brings him& we are 20 yrs old by the way. his legal situation is not goin very well s oI understand all of this, "problems" . Hi dad is trying(so he says) to get his imigrations situation fixed.ive waited for over a year yet nothing happens. i am starting to dislke his WHOLE family because every time he ask his mom "so what should i do I wanna be someon in this life etc" his mom always says: " well wait till you brother is 21 so he can help you" and his brother is barely 16 im like yeah very smart lady wait till he's like 30 so he can grow up! he pays for his college from lil side jobs he has but his parents dont help him at all theyre like well work & in my mind I say "well if it wasnt becasue of u & your irresposibilities he woulve never been in this imigration problem" but i rather not say anything. i don know what to do i do care for him but im just tired of always being he one taking us everywhere(being the guy) & always covering up for him with my family because my family doesnt know they think hes just lazy or a duchbag & everyday they remind me of that :S in addition,he at first didnt want me to geta job i dont know why.he became more & more insecure as i got new thigs such as car,job etc. I dont what to sound materialistic but ugh i dont know if im a monster I ate it because the yr we been together he hasnt met my whole family from mexico(he cant) & i keep making up excuses & getting all the bullets. so tell wha would you do in this situation Um if hes a illegal immigrant? I'm guessing from how your describing it then how is he going to collage? I didn't think they let illegals into collage if I'm wrong then sorry but a few things in your story don't make much sense...
Author lilyy.12 Posted August 28, 2010 Author Posted August 28, 2010 Um if hes a illegal immigrant? I'm guessing from how your describing it then how is he going to collage? I didn't think they let illegals into collage if I'm wrong then sorry but a few things in your story don't make much sense... he uses a social from his dad they have the same name.
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