mizundastud Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 Okay for a quick review.....texted him three months ago just to get some closure. He gave me really short, vague text so I decided I wasn't texting him anymore. About a week ago I initiated contact because of a debt that was owed to me. One day while were texting about this debt he texted me he wanted to get back with me. I was so excited because I thought I would never get those words from him. I played it really cool and didn't push too hard. So now couple days has passed and he is acting really funny, now ignoring my text. I am so angry because I allowed myself to go there with this whole situation. It took me a 1 1/2 yrs to accept that we were through and now I feel like Im back at ground 0. I have to get over him all over again which kinda let me know I wasnt in the first place but atleast I was moving on and made alot of progress and now I feel stuck and confused AGAIN!!! WTF!!! WHY? WHY? WHY? NO! NO! NO!
desertIslandCactus Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 It was the title of your thread that got my attention .. You're not starting over. You can still do NC with him, and with less pain than before. Does he owe you money, is it sizeable enough to go after him?
Author mizundastud Posted August 28, 2010 Author Posted August 28, 2010 It was the title of your thread that got my attention .. You're not starting over. You can still do NC with him, and with less pain than before. Does he owe you money, is it sizeable enough to go after him? Yeah he owes me $500. I know I have to do NC again but when he said that all my feelings for him came rushing back. I had gained control now I feel like I lost it and all I can think about is why hes not returning my text and did he know what he was doing.
desertIslandCactus Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 Yeah he owes me $500. I know I have to do NC again but when he said that all my feelings for him came rushing back. I had gained control now I feel like I lost it and all I can think about is why hes not returning my text and did he know what he was doing. You know him better than I do. Would he have lied to you and tried to thrown you off by saying he wanted to get back with you - just because you mentioned he still owed you $500. Is he that much of a cad?
tornandmarried Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 seems like the more second chances a relationship goes through the easier it is to get over it.....your post implies hes a bastard and u hate him, embrace it, stay true to those feelings...getting over him yet?
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