BloodBerry Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 It's just annoying when someone gives you unsolicited advice. I was asking a guy friend on ideas on what gift to give my SO. I joked around and said " if I can only go there on his bday, I'll give him the chance to make me do anything he wants in 1 day" 9im in an LDR) He took it seriously and was telling me not to do it, my bf will think I'm cheap, don't do it until you actually get to know him better... etc etc... I wasn't asking him relationship advice or what to do with my bf.. he doesn't need to delve into my relationship because that wasn't the topic anyway... And so what if I do that to my bf? He's my bf and I trust him more than I can ever trust anyone. I had rl relationships before and "meeting" someone doesn't necessarily mean he/she is more trustworthy. with what he said it seems like he's saying my bf isn't trust worthy, that I'm throwing what I saved for a long time to someone who isn't worthy. I wasn't asking about it and he need not to say it... Is it just me or what he did was really annoying...
Eve Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 I would give that a Grade 2 out of 10 for being annoying. If he was scratching his balls at the time, belching, picking his nose or something at the same time then yes, I would consider that more highly. So he spoke his mind, so what? Do you want friends who only tell you what you want to hear? Stop with the leading questions and you will have a nothing to worry about! Take care, Eve xx
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