amtz Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 Long time no see folks, It has been a while since I last posted in this great forum that truely helped me when needed it the most... Today I come to you guys seeking for help or advice. I overcame my brake-up long time ago and my situation is NOT related to love. Just wanted to apologize in advance before you fire me, but I simple don't have the nuts to talk to any family memeber or friend of what I'm going through ATM.... I just feel dull and empty!!! I cant take it any more!!! I just feel insane and everything seems pointless inclueding life... I hate my self for feeling this way since I have a stable well paying job, a home with everything I have ever wanted inclueding marvelous friends, but nothing seems to fill the gap I have!! At nights when I'm lonely in my room I tell my self that I should start living my life at full and to be thankful for what I have that many would kill for. And also for being healthy and have the chance to live life at it's fullist, but no matter what anxiety strikes me and I can beraly sleep 2-3 hours a night regardless the day of the week. I know I'm harming myself and that this non-sence should stop since I'm a 23 year old male with a life ahead of me, but literally I'm about to flip! Any advice?? Should I seek counseling which I'm afraid it won't work cause I don't want to loose hope At this point anything would help!! Past experiences are more than welcome since it would help me learn from others and what they did to overcome this situatin. Thanks in advance
BiAxident Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 Quarter-life crisis perhaps? If you are suffering from depression, medication may be in order. Therapy probably wouldnt hurt, but can be expensive. If you want to talk it out, head to http://tinychat.com/myrelationship
Author amtz Posted August 26, 2010 Author Posted August 26, 2010 Thanks for reply. I looked into the quarter-life crisis and all the symptoms listed just described exactly how I feel, which in a way helped me feel relived knowing that what I'm going through is normal and it's just simply a process of life. I will start accepting what I am in present time and let go of past thoughts! Thanks again really helped me feel normal again
YellowShark Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 Sounds like depression to me. Go see your doctor and speak with him/her. Additionally if you're really wallowing in self-pity go to the terminal cancer ward at your local hospital. That will really put things into PERSPECTIVE... because if you think you have it rough.. ...I have a stable well paying job, a home with everything I have ever wanted inclueding marvelous friends... Best of luck.
Author amtz Posted August 26, 2010 Author Posted August 26, 2010 I know exactly what you mean... I should start enjoying life NOW!! Thanks for the reply
smk Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 @amtz - dude I am going through something similar... I have a good job, great friends, family that is actually putting up with all of my mood swings (despite going through their own things) yet for the past few days I have felt the same way you have... Before that I was fine, I wasn't 100% over my break up but I was doing everything right, then all of a sudden things just sort of went downhill... I am just trying to think of it as another roller coaster of emotions... I am seeing a therapist and doing lots of positive things but still the last few days have been a complete irrespective of what I do....I don't really know your full situation but I guess we all have our setbacks and we just have to ride them through.., I just wish it were easier because days like these are the worst, days where you can't eat, sleep, or do anything for that matter... C'est la vie mon ami, we just have to be brave an get through them... We will get through this... Take care bro and be strong
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