I am wondering how i can get my ex to ask me to hang out again?

[missAshley]

To make it short, me and my ex have been through a ton. What we had felt so real and We were eachothers first love. Basically, we went through a ton of stuff over the summer, i called NC and we didnt talk. He had a girlfriend and once they broke up he texted me. Since then we have had small conversations here and there, He thinks I hate him, or atleast he thought that just the other day!!

He has told my friend that he misses me and that he wants to hang out with me, however each time he has asked me ( he has asked me twice) I rejected both times because I couldnt. Now each time i get frustrated with him ( long story, this girl i had a argument with texted me from his phone. However we made up over the summer so i didnt know if she was being sarcastic or not) I got mad at him and told him to delete my number from his phone, I had gotten multiple texts from girls over the summer from his phone.And i thought he gave his phone to her to text me on purpose. my friend also got mad at him and stood up for me. She told him how she didnt want him to be with me again or even friends and that he was a " douche" hahaha. He deserved it! After that he called my friend and explained the story, we had it all wrong.

 

He kept telling my friend to " please talk to me" Anyways, to conclude this story haha, i keep hearing that hes been going on dates with girls which is fine, he can do what he wants. But I want to know, how can I get him back? I do miss him, and I like having him chase me, but the past couple days he hasnt. What can I do to get him to text me first and get him to ask me to hang out again? Thanks!

[skydiveaddict]

Believe me, you dont want him back Go find someone who really cares for you. Cant you see that you are just being used?

[LostInTurn]

It's difficult to see the good in a situation when you care for someone. You don't deserve this. He doesn't deserve you. I understand you're asking about getting him back, that's a normal question. However, this doesn't sound like someone you should want to get back. This person is only going to hurt you.

 

Don't let yourself be second to anyone. Many times we make compromises that benefit someone else, but not us in any way.

 

This is not a good situation for you to be in or stay in. Get out.

[a.lyons1]

He's playing games. If he really cared for you you would have him back by now. Sod him, you dont deserve this, end it andfind someone you gives a damn. Stay NC. Be strong, get a life, go and enjoy it.