wing81 Posted February 18, 2004 Posted February 18, 2004 Well it has been almost 6 months since my girlfriend and I of almost 2 1/2 years. The problem is she remains to be the first and last thought of everyday. No matter how hard I try I can't get her out of my head. We have had no contact for the past 2 months now and I really want to hear from her. I sent her an email the other day saying that I was sorry and wish that we could still be close friends but got no response. I wasn't really expecting one. I became very close to her family during the time that we dated and I really want to go over the her house and see how her parents are doing. I'm not sure if this would be inappropriate or not. She is travelling for her job and probably will be for the next couple of months. I also have this urge to give her a call and see how she is doing, but I'm not sure how she would react to that either. I would love to talk to her in person again. The past view times that we saw each other she seemed like she wanted to talk and share things but at the same time wanted to leave the situation. I get the feeling that she has somebody new in her life and has had them for some time now. She seems to try and hide this information the past few times we talked. Cover things up so it doesn't seem completely obvious that she is with someone else. At the same time though I feel she is making some of it up. Not that anybody would have a hard time falling for her. She has been my best friend for over 4 years and I really want her in my life in one form or another. I'm just not sure what do to right now. Do you stop by and visit her parents? Do I give her a call and try talking to her? If anyone can give me an advice or suggestion I would greatly appreciate it.
opentonewadvice Posted February 18, 2004 Posted February 18, 2004 Although you may not want to, You must first ask yourself what initially caused the break-up and before calling her realize the changes you may need to make and then the changes she may need to make that way when you do call or talk with her you can touch basis in a more positive way. By doing so you will show her how much more serious you are about resolving the past strained relationship while also getting things off of your chest which i can tell you really need to vent. That way things may smooth over with the two of you becoming friends if nothing else. Now as far as the parents situation, you should carry onthe same relationship with them you had with their consent. especially if you have grown a closeness but if that is going to make you are your ex-girlfriend feel uncomfortable then maybe you should have the talk with her first before doing so..Love is always certain to survive the test of time remember if it is true love .
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