LostIsMyFav Posted August 25, 2010 Posted August 25, 2010 Me and my ex got into this huge fight of course, right before he goes away to college. He knows that i truly like him very much. The feelings were almost mutual I know that I love him but he likes me a lot however he had pushed me away at times because he didn't want to get too involved before he went away. He told me he would want to get back together with me but he wants to go away first and sort out everything with his school. Well three days before he leaves I gave him a letter that he read and something was misinterpreted in it about one of my friends because we played a joke on him a week before and it seemed like in the letter I was blaming her when I wasn't at all. He talked to my friend and she got mad at me and he wouldn't listen to me at all he said that he's done. And that he would think about saying goodbye to me. I explained things to my friend and she understands the misunderstanding and she even texted him and told him that it's a misunderstanding. He didn't text her back or anything and I texted him saying are you going to say goodbye to me or do you hate me? He said he doesn't hate me that he just doesn't want to talk to me and that he will eventually just not now. He left for college this morning and I'm heartbroken. He didn't even give me a chance to explain. To make matters worse I know he got one of his friends involved in the situation because he let someone read my letter! I just hope that he realizes that he didn't give me a chance. I mean he plans on talking to me again just not now. Is there any chance that we could work through our stuff and regain feelings for each other again? Does he just need time and space to think?
Don Ho Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 Lost, yes he needs space and a lot of it!! Back the fck off!! He was already not willing to get too involved because he was leaving for college. I hate to say it, but maybe he's just not that into you. Maybe you like him more than he likes you. The letter is just an "excuse" so you contacting him further, apologizing and trying to "fix" it will only make it worse and even push him further away. I don't think that's what you want. So. Go no contact at all! Do not email, text, talk through a friend, send a letter, call, NOTHING. He may get over it, he may not. He may decide he does really like you and miss you IF you leave him alone! Get it?? So get busy with your life and friends and do your best to move on. Sorry to say, he will let YOU know if HE is interested. Hang in there.
LostInTurn Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 The only thing that will MAYBE make someone think about it and decide to contact YOU is NO CONTACT. You will not only help the situation, you will help yourself. All the time and energy you could spend trying to speak with someone you should put towards NO CONTACT.
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