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recently i have posted things on here about my heartbreak and losing my first love and now im just saying to everyone who is going through the same thing, it gets soo much easier!

I dealt with so much when my ex broke up with me, he treated me like rubbish at the end, he spread rumours about me wich made people fall out with me, he ganged up against me, he got my best friends to hate me with his lies and i had no one! I got nasty facebook messages and my best friends were telling him things that i was tellling them! So i couldnt trust anyone. He found a new girl a month after we broke up and started seeing her.

BUT its been 3 nearly 4 months since the split, and yes i do still think about him and yes sometimes i feel lonley and miss him but things work out in the end i promise!

For a start karma plays a MAJOR role! my ex lost his girl because she said shes going to uni and doesnt want to be with anyone and 2 days later went in a relationship with someone eles and my so called "best friends" failed there exams and didnt get to uni. Im not saying this is a good thing but the world corrects itself. I got to uni and for the first time EVER im really happy with my life.

My ex wil be stuck working as a lifeguard because he has no qualifitcations. I know that **** is happening right now, but if you just wait you will get that break that you need!

i no longer talk to my so called friends any more and although i lost 3 people who meant the most to me, the harshness of it all made me find myself once again.

The way i did it was positive thoughts. Dont be negative, everything happens for a reason so for everyone with a heartbreak chin up . Life can only get better even tho at this second it doesnt feel like it :) x

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Thanks! I needed that! I'm sorry to hear about your ex. No guy is worth losing friends over but you'd be surprised sometimes you need a guy to show you who your real friends are. I've just went though a horrible break up and feel all the things you are telling me. :( It's awful but I do hope it gets easier! Thanks for your story. :)

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