Snafü2 Posted August 25, 2010 Posted August 25, 2010 I've been with my girlfriend for about 2 years now, we knew each other for a long time before we started to go out. After awhile, I started to ask her alot of questions. It didn't seem odd to me because it all seemed like legit things to ask. After awhile she started to complain I asked her to many questions, any where from what she was doing/if something was wrong/what she had for breakfast. Its gotten to the point where shes on the verge of calling it quits because I ask to many questions. On top of that, I worry about her alot. She was raped a week or two before we started to go out, though I didn't find out till months later, and has had problems not as severe but still bad in the past. I don't like leaving her alone in public places and usually go with her every where. I also worry about simple things like her tone of voice saying something, or just talking a bit differently then usual. After she told me what happened to her before we started to go out, it took a good few months to stop having it replay in my head, and its not the first time I've had problems getting bad things out of my head, whether its something that happened to her or something that happened to me. I googled obsessive questioning and got to this forum. I'm not sure if there is something I missed that answers my question already, if so I apologize. But if not, wtf is wrong with me and how do I fix it?
lilyy.12 Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 well my bf does too ask many questions. like why?this with whom why him etc. it does get annoying & yes someties im just thinking of ending it. but i dont consider it a weird this its just annoying thats the way he is although i would appreciate ifhe didnt ask sooo many questions. idk if it help but atleast u r not alone:)
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