beachwrangler Posted August 25, 2010 Posted August 25, 2010 I ve been going with my girlfriend for the past 8 months just last weekend she told me she felt the closest to me she has in our relationship. Well sunday she found out I added a girl on facebook bc my email didnt close out on her laptop.I had deleted the notification of us now being friends on my facebook and she noticed that. She thinks I was hiding it from her bc I either have the intention of hooking up with her or already am. Which is not the case at all I love this girl to death and don't look at anybody the way I look at her. I have always been loyal to her. I don't blame her though it does look sketchy that I deleted the notifcation and now she is afraid if I hide this I will definitly hide something more serious. I messed up bad I agree and Ive told her how much its killing me that Ive hurt her this bad. Now she wants space from me and doesn't even know if she wants to be with me. She tells me does still love me very much. I just wish we could get past this but idk what the best course of action is to do it. I love this girl and would do anything for her.
LostIsMyFav Posted August 25, 2010 Posted August 25, 2010 I could understand how she feels because the signs point it towards sketchy, but try to let it go and let her be for a little while. Tell her that she needs to trust you and leave it at that
Author beachwrangler Posted August 25, 2010 Author Posted August 25, 2010 Yes trust me I know how stupid it was to hide it from her and no cheating on her is the least thing I would do. She is very insecure and her finding this out didnt help at all. She's so afraid I'm eventually just gonna get up and leave her Im guessing due to her past relationships which didn't end well. When were in public she always thinks im checking out girls which isnt the case at all. She thinks shes fat when really shes no where close to being fat. I tell her everyday how gorgeous I think she is and that I look at nobody the way I look at her but it doesnt help. She did tell me the other day she isn't happy with herself.
Username37 Posted August 25, 2010 Posted August 25, 2010 She sounds very insecure. My ex was like that too. Tell her your feelings. You love this girl to death. Make it known that you do and tell her this is a huge misunderstanding. This is a horrible way for your relationship to end. Wish you luck bud
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