Jabez Posted August 25, 2010 Posted August 25, 2010 So as I said earlier, today started out really bad. She and I had a huge fight (only through texting). She said there was no chance of reconciliation and that she was happier with her new boyfriend. I let her basically walk all over me because I didn't want to fight I just wanted to understand my pain. She wasn't hearing any of it. So I get home, lay down for an hour, and after talking with a few friends and thinking about it, and sent her my penultimate text: "So I've been thinking, and all I've tried to do was make peace with you, but you just shot me down every time. So guess what? I DON'T NEED YOU ANYMORE. I can do better than you." After I said that, really SAID that, it felt like such a weight off my heart. I was purged of her completely. Needless to say, some harsh words were said, including a comment from her saying "after the **** you pulled, you think a couple of texts is going to make it all ok?" And it sounds terrible but I didn't feel any pain or sting at all, and held nothing back: "For the record, I don't think that a couple texts is going to make it all 'ok'. Because that takes TIME, time you didn't want to waste, so live your life and I'll live mine. I'm sick of being heartbroken over you, and I'm taking my life back. You used to be worth it." It is SUCH A GOOD FEELING!! and on my way home from the bar (to celebrate my birthday--10 minutes!!!) I got to the neighborhood, passed her house and I wasn't even tempted to glance over. I. AM. FREE! This is gonna be the best birthday.
Username37 Posted August 25, 2010 Posted August 25, 2010 Glad you're walking on sunshine man! Happy birthday bro
You Go Girl Posted August 25, 2010 Posted August 25, 2010 "I'm sick of being heartbroken over you, and I'm taking my life back." Good one! Happy Birthday!
BiAxident Posted August 25, 2010 Posted August 25, 2010 Atta boy! I would have pissed on her car door handle when she wasnt looking, but your approach is much better!
hurt and devastated Posted August 25, 2010 Posted August 25, 2010 Good for you! I like how you worded your last text to her. I can't wait to feel like that so I can say it to my STBXW's face. And BTW happy birthday!! You're in good company. My daughter turned 2 today, and it's my best friend's birthday today too.
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