Berict Posted August 24, 2010 Posted August 24, 2010 (edited) my girlfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and currently she's in a 4 star hotel with her so called gay man friend. The so called gay friend payed for her flight and they share a room. My girlfriend assures me that the friend is strictly homosexual and there is no sexual feelings towards each other. It just strikes me as a big red flag in my mind that there is something severely wrong with this thing. Yesterday I was talking to my friend about my relationship with my girlfriend and he told me to basically to call her and raise questions concerning faithfulness. She got really defensive and threatened to hang up on me..............she did... I talked to her on the phone and began telling her something like "was it wrong of me to ask questions concerning being faithful? if you have nothing to hide then what's the big deal?" She was so quiet on the phone at first, basically telling me that I had "changed". She tried changing the subject.. I couldn't let it go and ended the phone conversation. I'm so confused and in denial. I visited her in new york about a month and half ago. She said she'd meet me at the airport, she didn't. So I met her outside of her apartment (Harlem) and she was from the torso down all bruised up and literally bleeding all over her legs. The first the I did was clean up her blood on her leg. WTF? There was a strange text message that she sent me that was out of context. "am fully hair dried and ready for lovin". I think she meant to send that to someone else, because I'm not the one that can physically see he right at this moment? I dunno. Can someone help shed light on this? Maybe I'm just being jealous? Edited August 24, 2010 by Berict
aerogurl87 Posted August 24, 2010 Posted August 24, 2010 Dump her. This has nothing to do with the gay friend, but the fact that obviously she's a bit screwed up in the head if she was bleeding from the torso down when you came to see her. Does she live with anyone else? If the answer is no and she wasn't robbed before you came to see her, then yeah she's messed up in the head and you don't want to be with someone like that. Secondly, that text is a big red flag. Did you confront her about it when you received it? Even if you didn't there's no way around that one unless you two were being naughty on cam that day, and if that's not the case then yeah she cheated or is cheating.
Author Berict Posted August 24, 2010 Author Posted August 24, 2010 As soon as I got the text message I instantly said "lovin?", then she replies with "for u.... silly." I reply back "Is that text message meant to be for someone else?". She hasn't contacted me in 5 hours of the text.
aerogurl87 Posted August 24, 2010 Posted August 24, 2010 As soon as I got the text message I instantly said "lovin?", then she replies with "for u.... silly." I reply back "Is that text message meant to be for someone else?". She hasn't contacted me in 5 hours of the text. Yep, something is amiss and I'm 99% sure she's cheating. End the relationship and move on, you don't need this, especially when you're in a LDR.
JacquesA.LeFrancais Posted August 25, 2010 Posted August 25, 2010 Berict Run. Away. Quickly. Go no contact...and save yourself
Author Berict Posted August 25, 2010 Author Posted August 25, 2010 (edited) I talked to her on the phone about the text message and about how she didn't respond to my calls for the next 5 hours. she goes "I was sleeping, wow I didn't see that you called me that's weird." I asked her "why would you dry your hair and make yourself look nice just to go to sleep?", she had no idea what to say next, she fizzled. So she gets really upset and says "I'm not liking this new Ryan, I want the Ryan that is nice to me". She hangs up, and calls me back within 30 seconds. Saying "sorry, I don't mean that". Then for some weird reason she goes sarcastically "Ryan when I wasn't talking to you I was ****ing another guy in the hotel" acting as if it wasn't at all true. There was an awkward silence and I asked "Megan, I hope you were being sarcastic. Maybe she's a hooker (she lives in Harlem NY) any takers? Edited August 25, 2010 by Berict
lala82 Posted August 25, 2010 Posted August 25, 2010 I cannot asummed is she is a hooker or not. But definitely, she is telling you lies and making excuses for everything. Do not contact her anymore. What's the point to try to speak with a lier? Just move on and carry on with your life.
Author Berict Posted August 25, 2010 Author Posted August 25, 2010 You're all right. Thanks for the posts.
Author Berict Posted August 28, 2010 Author Posted August 28, 2010 She recently had gone to the hospital yet again, She got an HIV test. She told me before ending up in the hospital a vietnamese man gave her a $100 dollar bill for the hell of it. She doesn't remember why.
aerogurl87 Posted August 29, 2010 Posted August 29, 2010 She recently had gone to the hospital yet again, She got an HIV test. She told me before ending up in the hospital a vietnamese man gave her a $100 dollar bill for the hell of it. She doesn't remember why. She's a hooker. End of story, hope you're kicking her to the curb if you haven't already done so.
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