Ihavenoideer Posted August 24, 2010 Posted August 24, 2010 (edited) http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?t=230551 I was reading through the forums out of boredom and came across this thread, you can't post on it anymore due to the age of the thread, but I wanted to put my 2 pennies worth in. The thread got derailed and that is the conversation I am responding to I'm not in the porn industry so I guess I really don't know how it is, but I have seen a few documentaries about porn and about female porn stars. None of these industries forced women to do something they didn't want to do, you are always hearing the directors and crew ask if the women are ok, if they need anything how they felt about the shot, if they are comfortable, if they need a break, I've seen a few women that felt they guy was being to aggressive and the scene was changed. Now I'm not saying that every company or video is legitimate just like all the other businesses or industries in the world some are corrupt and it is hard to tell the difference. You can't blame all the bad things about porn on porn, in my mind it's kind of like saying people don't kill people guns kill people or there are not bad dog owners just bad dogs. Someone even went as far as blaming the sex slave trade on porn... What!!! You can't blame that on porn you blame that on the sick ****s that do it, pay for it, and partake in the act. Maybe you should blame it on the law that makes prostitution illegal, maybe if prostitution was legal and had more rules and regulations for safety in place then we wouldn't have the sex slave trade. And how can you really say porn ruined your marriage/relationship. If he didn't look at porn till after your marriage/relationship started then something changed may it be the feelings he had for you, your sex life or all of a sudden the lack there of. Or if he is trying stuff from the porno maybe he is bored and trying to spice up the sex. It all really comes down to communication if you think about it. How many times have you sat down and talked about your sex life, asked him why he watched porn, asked him if there was anything he wanted to show you or try. Some men turn to porn cause they don't know what else to do. Take my thread for instance http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t242358/, what am I suppose to do I love my old lady to death I don't want to leave her and I don't want to lose her, everything we have is great even the sex. But I have a high sex drive, what am I suppose to do? If I tell her she might feel sad, depressed, like she isn't good enough, I've brought up my masturbation to her, but only recently in the last year or so, and I've seen her hidden reaction, she tried to hide it, but the look in her eye when I said yes I masturbate, and the way she asked why, like she felt bad. Back to the subject, its really time to stop blaming porn for your relationship problems and for things it really doesn't have any control over and start blaming yourself really. Look at what you can change or have changed. Edited August 24, 2010 by Ihavenoideer
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