Mimsicles Posted August 24, 2010 Posted August 24, 2010 Hi there My boyfriend of 3 years has cheated on me 5 times, for me to know of, and I have forgiven him every single time. I must admit we were getting on great after a few terrible months, but I felt like we'd come out the dark, and were really in love again. He understood that I didnt want to hear this particular girls name (as he works with her), and he promised her number was deleted from his phone. A month ago he started acting wierd again, and by this time i knew the signs, so looked through his mobile only to see he had been texting her again about their kiss! And the stupid thing is i forgave him again, like the mug that I am. Anyway I had been getting quite close to a guy that i worked with, I did find him attractive but I told him I had a boyfriend and he understood nothing could happen, but it was lovely having a man to talk to about my problems, he told me I deserved better. We went on a works nights out and I was extremely drunk, but I kissed him, and this may sound horrible but I enjoyed it and didnt want to stop, that was until my bf was looking from the otherside of the club. I do feel guilty and i'm not justifying what i've done but everyone is telling me that the relationship will never work with no trust, I can never trust him again and he will never trust me again. I think deep down i do love him and he loves me, but do you guys think this relationship is worth starting over again or not???
PegNosePete Posted August 24, 2010 Posted August 24, 2010 You should end the relationship with this serial cheater. It will never end well.
Dexter Morgan Posted August 25, 2010 Posted August 25, 2010 I think deep down i do love him and he loves me, but do you guys think this relationship is worth starting over again or not??? you have already started over when you forgave him every time he cheated. question is....how many times are you going to start over?
lilyy.12 Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 im sorry but that is not love. maybe from your side it is but sweetie deep down you know. 5 times cant be LOVE. people over use this word to the point that it becomes meaningless. id say you end with yur bf & start fresh
NYCmitch25 Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 Hi there My boyfriend of 3 years has cheated on me 5 times, for me to know of, and I have forgiven him every single time. I must admit we were getting on great after a few terrible months, but I felt like we'd come out the dark, and were really in love again. He understood that I didnt want to hear this particular girls name (as he works with her), and he promised her number was deleted from his phone. A month ago he started acting wierd again, and by this time i knew the signs, so looked through his mobile only to see he had been texting her again about their kiss! And the stupid thing is i forgave him again, like the mug that I am. Anyway I had been getting quite close to a guy that i worked with, I did find him attractive but I told him I had a boyfriend and he understood nothing could happen, but it was lovely having a man to talk to about my problems, he told me I deserved better. We went on a works nights out and I was extremely drunk, but I kissed him, and this may sound horrible but I enjoyed it and didnt want to stop, that was until my bf was looking from the otherside of the club. I do feel guilty and i'm not justifying what i've done but everyone is telling me that the relationship will never work with no trust, I can never trust him again and he will never trust me again. I think deep down i do love him and he loves me, but do you guys think this relationship is worth starting over again or not??? I hope this all is young stupidity because I'm tempted to say "you all deserve each other".. as in meaning it's a punishment. Come on, ditch this other guy, not for the cheating but for the fact that you are kissing another man.. move on. grow a set. lol
YellowShark Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 My boyfriend of 3 years has cheated on me 5 times, for me to know of, and I have forgiven him every single time. Here's the equation Mimsicles. Once a cheater not always a cheater, twice a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater. But since it's been 5 times, I would say you deserve better than that in a man Mimsicles. Don't believe a word he says, because he will only say what you need to hear and then he will simply cheat on you again. Sad but true.
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