Tripp Posted August 24, 2010 Posted August 24, 2010 Im 18, last year high school. Been with a girl two years. Extremely messy break up. I see her EVERYday. Except weekends. Its been 5 months now, shes with another guy (for that 5 months). I know she used him to hurt me, although now it could be something more. Im in a band, do great at school, have a lot of friends (she has none), video games, have a car, job etc etc. My life is busy. I see her at school and my heart rushes. I see her with that guy and it...breaks ish lol. What can I do to cope better? Is there a method of closure that ive missed? Oh and also, a friend filled my head with thoughts of her sleeping with the guy...yea dont know how to stop it affecting me... much appreciated.
Username37 Posted August 24, 2010 Posted August 24, 2010 Im 18, last year high school. Been with a girl two years. Extremely messy break up. I see her EVERYday. Except weekends. Its been 5 months now, shes with another guy (for that 5 months). I know she used him to hurt me, although now it could be something more. Im in a band, do great at school, have a lot of friends (she has none), video games, have a car, job etc etc. My life is busy. I see her at school and my heart rushes. I see her with that guy and it...breaks ish lol. What can I do to cope better? Is there a method of closure that ive missed? Oh and also, a friend filled my head with thoughts of her sleeping with the guy...yea dont know how to stop it affecting me... much appreciated. Hey dude! Another HS student. I'm not alone. Anyways I'm also a senior man (2011 w00t!) I'm going through a break up too man. And I go to school with her and I'm gonna see her everyday. It's been 3 months for me with 2 months of NC and let me tell ya, it was hell man. 3 weeks after my breakup, she hooks up with some guy totally the opposite of me. Luckily, the guy doesn't go to our school (In fact, he goes to college WTF) Since then, she changed big time. I saw her today, and it was so tough. She looked so beautiful and she ignored me. Try to avoid them and if you see them, please keep cool. Be mature and don't fight or anything. I too am in a band, dig video games, have a car, doing alright in school, no job yet, but she took most of my friends away. ****ing bitch. I have a "friend" who went into detail about my ex and her rebound hookup. And it bothers me today. Hope we get through this buddy Check out my school log. Feel free to post your thoughts about your day in it. I don't mind.
Author Tripp Posted August 24, 2010 Author Posted August 24, 2010 Hahaha hey man! It actually feels great to find someone going through something similar to me! Yeap, I was in NC for 5 months, she tried apologizing a week ago, however it was VERY insincere (opening line was "I FEEL like I should apologize for being in your face quite recently), I just walked away. Shes ALWAYS with her new boyfriend, and I get to see it everyday. Oh and hear about it. So what do you do when thoughts flood into your head? Just mentally block it? I know I've come far in the 5 months, man was my world fixated on her for a long time. Sometimes I doubt it was even me LOL As for 3 weeks she hooks up with another guy, I was with my ex for 2 years. Took her 2 weeks to find another guy. And even when she was with him she was doing stuff with me for a period of time. Yeap, messy break up
Username37 Posted August 24, 2010 Posted August 24, 2010 Hahaha hey man! It actually feels great to find someone going through something similar to me! Yeap, I was in NC for 5 months, she tried apologizing a week ago, however it was VERY insincere (opening line was "I FEEL like I should apologize for being in your face quite recently), I just walked away. Shes ALWAYS with her new boyfriend, and I get to see it everyday. Oh and hear about it. So what do you do when thoughts flood into your head? Just mentally block it? I know I've come far in the 5 months, man was my world fixated on her for a long time. Sometimes I doubt it was even me LOL As for 3 weeks she hooks up with another guy, I was with my ex for 2 years. Took her 2 weeks to find another guy. And even when she was with him she was doing stuff with me for a period of time. Yeap, messy break up My ex girlfriend hasn't apologized to me yet. Although over the summer she sent me a birthday card and it felt like a "don't hate me because of the **** you heard" card. Well today was my first day. I tried to block it, but I couldn't. I was thinking about how pretty she was and how I could be with her right now. I also thought about how much she changed. When I got with her, she was shy, fat, and all of that, but I told her that I loved her no matter what and I accepted her faults and everything. Now she's skinny, a social butterfly who parties and hooks up aparently. It's so sad. It's been a while. Feels like the relationship never happened. And dude, that's terrible. I know for a fact my ex didn't cheat. But I had a feeling she wanted to know what other guys where like. She began to change as soon as she started losing weight. I feel used haha So tomorrow: Just be cool. If you see her with the new boy. Ignore it and be cool. You got this man. Hopefully I can get my **** together haha
Author Tripp Posted August 24, 2010 Author Posted August 24, 2010 HAHAHA WHOA. Yea my ex used to be fat. Well not fat but...chubby. Shes since lost weight. And talking to her now, she seems completely different, i definitely get what you mean. And she was my first kiss (lol ive had a lot of girlfriends but i wanted to save it for someone special). yeap she cheated, but I took her back. I still dont really know if that was a mistake... I get you man, totally. I see her, i think about being with her. But then i remember the amount of crap shes hit me with. Yes ive done some hurt to her...but there are many things I didnt deserve. And I guess its a lot harder to let go of your 'first'. She looks at me in some classes as well, quite odd. But i hear that shes always cosy with her boyfriend in her form room. I had been waiting for an apology for SO long. But "I FEEL like I should" i mean cmon lol...She was always like that though...her words meant nothing. And i doubted she ever loved me. But I also just think, I loved her, I really cared. Now its time to move on. She was lucky to have me. And if she asked me back, I will never go back. Im beginning to find my happiness about being myself (plus loads of girls said im better looking than this new guy). So me and you, we'll just tough this s*** out. I had so much I wanted to say to my ex, so many questions to ask. I just told her I dont care, and I walked away. Sometimes the most important fights are the ones you avoid xDDD
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