jake2.0 Posted February 17, 2004 Posted February 17, 2004 I just started dating this girl for like 2 weeks. She says she really likes me but it seems like im the one that always calls her and not the other way around. She also has a friend that she says still likes her and its his birthday this weekend. Well i asked her to go out Friday, and she says she cant see me cuz he wants to go out with her for his birthday to some bar. Should this be bothering me? i guess its bothering me that she knows he likes her. If it was really just a friend, shouldnt i be invited also? i dunno.. just tired of these games jake
NEONINK Posted February 17, 2004 Posted February 17, 2004 If I were back in your shoes... I would use tack and honesty. Not anger or jealousy. But let her know that it bothers you. If she thinks you are worth it, she will do something to indicate that. If she isn't in it for love... Then you'll know.
Author jake2.0 Posted February 17, 2004 Author Posted February 17, 2004 thanks, i just dont wanna act too jealous already, and scare her off. Its only been a few weeks. The thing is he doesnt even sound like he is a really good friend of hers, but yet she is choosing to hang out with him over me..
clia Posted February 18, 2004 Posted February 18, 2004 Oh my God, it's been TWO weeks. Her life does not stop because she met you. Tell her to have a great time celebrating her friend's birthday and give her a call the next day. I would not mention your jealousy just yet...it's way, way too soon.
Author jake2.0 Posted February 18, 2004 Author Posted February 18, 2004 lol, thanks clia. i think im just tired of dating and playing games, thats all...
reasontosigh Posted February 18, 2004 Posted February 18, 2004 Originally posted by jake2.0 i think im just tired of dating and playing games, thats all... That basically sums up the feelings of everyone here! I'd go with clia's take on this one. Just stay cool.
Regulus Posted February 22, 2004 Posted February 22, 2004 slow it down... I would also wait several days before calling. You shouldn't be doing that much calling anyways when you've only been dating someone for two weeks. Takes the mystery out of everything. I know it sounds like "games", but that's just the way things are. good luck.
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