BiAxident Posted August 23, 2010 Posted August 23, 2010 My entire saga can be found here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t241504/6 After 2 years of NC, I broke it, got invited up to see my ex and had sex that night. That turned into FWB, which turned into full-on-dating, which turned into her having doubts and needing space. Well, she used that "space" to meet up at a music festival with a guy she had been e-mailing with, after having met him on match.com. She called me up early this afternoon saying that we needed to talk -- and told me that she had to break up with me. She now believes in love at first sight, and is certain after one weekend that she has met the man she wants to spend the rest of her life with. This.. a month after asking if I thought we'd ever get married, asking me what kind of a wedding I would want, etc, etc. I can't believe that I'm right back where I started when I joined LS two and a half years ago. This sucks even worse now that I'm two years older! Thank goodness for LS, and for our new found chatroom. Hope to see some of you there later tonight! Let the coping begin!
skydiveaddict Posted August 23, 2010 Posted August 23, 2010 Why did you do that to yourself? No good will ever come of it. But I like the idea of your chat room. I will try it
bonpaw2008 Posted August 24, 2010 Posted August 24, 2010 Aw Bi - you are officially one of us you knew it was coming, but it doesn't make it any easier. You are in the right place and you will be fine....xoxo
lullaby Posted August 24, 2010 Posted August 24, 2010 My entire saga can be found here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t241504/6 After 2 years of NC, I broke it, got invited up to see my ex and had sex that night. That turned into FWB, which turned into full-on-dating, which turned into her having doubts and needing space. Well, she used that "space" to meet up at a music festival with a guy she had been e-mailing with, after having met him on match.com. She called me up early this afternoon saying that we needed to talk -- and told me that she had to break up with me. She now believes in love at first sight, and is certain after one weekend that she has met the man she wants to spend the rest of her life with. This.. a month after asking if I thought we'd ever get married, asking me what kind of a wedding I would want, etc, etc. I can't believe that I'm right back where I started when I joined LS two and a half years ago. This sucks even worse now that I'm two years older! Thank goodness for LS, and for our new found chatroom. Hope to see some of you there later tonight! Let the coping begin! I'm sorry this happened Bi. She is just a confused girl, she probably doesn't even know what she wanted. Now you know you gave it a last try, at least you have that. Those of us who still maintain LC opened the door for these things to happen right? You will be fine. Be strong, Ok?
Iselia Posted August 24, 2010 Posted August 24, 2010 My entire saga can be found here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t241504/6 After 2 years of NC, I broke it, got invited up to see my ex and had sex that night. That turned into FWB, which turned into full-on-dating, which turned into her having doubts and needing space. Well, she used that "space" to meet up at a music festival with a guy she had been e-mailing with, after having met him on match.com. She called me up early this afternoon saying that we needed to talk -- and told me that she had to break up with me. She now believes in love at first sight, and is certain after one weekend that she has met the man she wants to spend the rest of her life with. This.. a month after asking if I thought we'd ever get married, asking me what kind of a wedding I would want, etc, etc. I can't believe that I'm right back where I started when I joined LS two and a half years ago. This sucks even worse now that I'm two years older! Thank goodness for LS, and for our new found chatroom. Hope to see some of you there later tonight! Let the coping begin! This really pisses me off. How the heck can your ex think she's in love with that guy?! That isn't love at all, that's infatuation. My ex did something similar and it ticks me the high hell off! You are BETTER without someone like that in your life. Forget her and enjoy the single life. Seriously.
Author BiAxident Posted August 24, 2010 Author Posted August 24, 2010 Why did you do that to yourself? No good will ever come of it. But I like the idea of your chat room. I will try it Please do. I've never been able to actually find your whole story. I suspect you have some good insights to offer.
Author BiAxident Posted August 24, 2010 Author Posted August 24, 2010 I'm sorry this happened Bi. She is just a confused girl, she probably doesn't even know what she wanted. Now you know you gave it a last try, at least you have that. Those of us who still maintain LC opened the door for these things to happen right? You will be fine. Be strong, Ok? Her trying to visit one of my friends is what opened the door for this to happen. She was single, she tried visiting one of my friends (who she dated before) and I said "if anyone is nailing my ex its gonna be me!". Not that I actually expected it.. or any of the rest of this.. to happen.
Author BiAxident Posted August 24, 2010 Author Posted August 24, 2010 This really pisses me off. How the heck can your ex think she's in love with that guy?! That isn't love at all, that's infatuation. My ex did something similar and it ticks me the high hell off! You are BETTER without someone like that in your life. Forget her and enjoy the single life. Seriously. Well, I guess exchanging friendly emails over the course of several weeks and then finally meeting in person is all it takes to undo seventeen years of history and extreme compatibility. It went down just like Hollywood says it was supposed to.
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