she needs some time sort out her pass before she commits fully into a new relationshi

[cctv]

my gf and i started dating for a month. things were going really well,as any new relationship goes.. we spent lots of time together, went away for a weekend and and just enjoyed our company together.we would bbm each other many times for the day, say gmorning , gnight messages etc,.. then one night, out of the blue , she said somethings bothering her .. She told me she cannot be 100% committed in a serious relationship until she gets closure from her past relationship ........

Her ex and her arefinished appox a year, they lived together, but they are now living two seperate countries... she doesn't want to get back with him, but she needs closure in that aspect ,because they ended their relationship over the phone.... Basically she told me we should take things slow for a while and dont rush stufff ...

 

What should i do ? how should i deal with this ?

[USMCHokie]

LAUNCH. One of two things is happening here:

 

(1) She is not over the guy and does want him back. You will always be second best in this scenario.

 

(2) She is using her ex as an excuse to let you down gently.

 

Either way, her mind and heart are not completely into you...it's been only one month, so let this one go and find a girl who wants to be with you...