Author WantingHerBack Posted September 10, 2010 Author Posted September 10, 2010 thought it would be nice to update my thread with progress Im doing alright tbh, i believe altho im not sure my ex jumped into a rebound relationship, im still NC and as days pass i think about her less and less, still of course get the odd down moments but all in all could be worse i dont even know her new fella but i guess this is the perfect motivation to keep on doing the same and move on for myself
whatadeer26 Posted September 10, 2010 Posted September 10, 2010 Good to hear buddy. Keep it up time cures all. Most of all live your life.
Don Ho Posted September 10, 2010 Posted September 10, 2010 Good job Bro! We haven't heard from you since August 25th and you've been NC that whole time and doing better! I'd say you're over the tough part and it just gets easier and easier and you feel less and less emotional about her.
Angel1111 Posted September 10, 2010 Posted September 10, 2010 I think your ex sees a guy who does drugs and who has lied about it for a long time. Then after numerous discussions and break-ups about this, you decide that it's worth the risk to fall back into this pattern yet again. From her standpoint, you don't have the strength to stay away from drugs and you're not motivated to do so. Even if you stay away from them for a month or a year, you have proven that you can't be trusted in the long-term. The minute you're faced with another big problem or emotional crisis, who's to say how you're going to react? And history shows that you're likely to go back to doing the same thing again. If I were her, I'd see you as a huge risk. I think you'd be better off thinking about how your actions are ruining your reputation - not only with this girl but with any future ones. Either that, or start dating women who are ok with your behavior. You made the choice to screw up your relationship over drugs. It would probably be better for you to just work on yourself. Btw, I'm sorry to hear about your dad.
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