TomerT Posted August 22, 2010 Posted August 22, 2010 My girlfriend break up with me 2 weeks ago (on Skype, while she on long vacation at her country, saying how much she still loves and misses me, how sad she is, all this stuff...and lets be friends of course...)... Now, since then she tried to contact me 3 times. First time, we talked and she said again how much she loves me all this stuff..lets be friends... Other two times I was "busy" to talk to he, so we didn't talk at all. Eventually I will not ignore her forever, cause I do want her back, but I have a feeling that she is saying all this stuff only her to feel better...So my question is what should I tell her if next time she start telling me all this stuff. Knowing her, she will probably ask something provocative like "Honey, do you still love me?" or "Do you want us back?" or "Do you date someone ?"....stuff like this. I feel helpless in front of those... Eventually I want her back, but if answer her genuine answer she may just keep hanging me more... Please help
GrayClouds Posted August 23, 2010 Posted August 23, 2010 (edited) My girlfriend break up with me 2 weeks ago (on Skype, while she on long vacation at her country, saying how much she still loves and misses me, how sad she is, all this stuff...and lets be friends of course...)... Now, since then she tried to contact me 3 times. First time, we talked and she said again how much she loves me all this stuff..lets be friends... Other two times I was "busy" to talk to he, so we didn't talk at all. Eventually I will not ignore her forever, cause I do want her back, but I have a feeling that she is saying all this stuff only her to feel better...So my question is what should I tell her if next time she start telling me all this stuff. Knowing her, she will probably ask something provocative like "Honey, do you still love me?" or "Do you want us back?" or "Do you date someone ?"....stuff like this. I feel helpless in front of those... Eventually I want her back, but if answer her genuine answer she may just keep hanging me more... Please help Do ignore her forever, she is just messing with your heart to feed her ego, keep you on the hook so she is not alone when she get back, while now she is free to screw around with strangers. You deserve better, even though you care for this chick she does not really care for you. Focus on building yourself and moving on so you are ready for the right one when she comes along, this girl is not her. If you let her in your life again, you are telling her you are willing to put up with any thing she will to put you through. Sorry for your pain, but contact with her will only extend it longer. Ignore Kaish advice, it only offer false hope and is trying to take advantage of your pain and sell you crap. Edited August 23, 2010 by GrayClouds
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