Karmone Posted August 22, 2010 Posted August 22, 2010 Ok..i will make this short as I can I was seeing a man for 7 months...we broke up for a few months and have now been seeing each other for two months now...we spent at least 3 nights a week together, he was always contacting me..saying sweet things...etc. Heeven commented on he was worried about a medical procedure .. Now we went from all that to short and snippy in a day..we were together and everything was fine..a day later he is very short and not responding to my messages? I asked him if I had done something to upset him but he did not reply. When I explained to him how upset I was he commented ..."OMG, sometimes you drive me crazy .. lol.. you go n vacation and i will talk to you when you get back". What is goin on here>
GrayClouds Posted August 22, 2010 Posted August 22, 2010 Ok..i will make this short as I can I was seeing a man for 7 months...we broke up for a few months and have now been seeing each other for two months now...we spent at least 3 nights a week together, he was always contacting me..saying sweet things...etc. Heeven commented on he was worried about a medical procedure .. Now we went from all that to short and snippy in a day..we were together and everything was fine..a day later he is very short and not responding to my messages? I asked him if I had done something to upset him but he did not reply. When I explained to him how upset I was he commented ..."OMG, sometimes you drive me crazy .. lol.. you go n vacation and i will talk to you when you get back". What is goin on here> He kept you around for stroking his ego and stroking his other thing. You showed him that he can get what he want from you while you will put up with no commitment. I think you deserve better, now it is time for you to. Go NC, see someone to help you understand why you would put up with this, and move on.
Author Karmone Posted August 22, 2010 Author Posted August 22, 2010 We did agree not to see other people so that is commitment?
GrayClouds Posted August 22, 2010 Posted August 22, 2010 Well behavior communicate stronger then words. I suspect he is just keeping you around until he finds some he things is better. Bottom line is his behavior does not show you love and respect. Why would you put up with it? You can do better if your willing to be alone for while.
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