dispatch3d Posted August 22, 2010 Posted August 22, 2010 this situation annoyed me a little bit. Looking for ways to prevent/avoid this kinda thing in the future. Don't appreciate being treated like this for no reason..... Three girls, all friends. Girl A: Leaving soon to go to school. Good friends with her. Happy to be friends with her. Doesn't live in my current town but occasionally visits. Girl B: Have been friends with her for a while. We hang out a fair bit. She gives me signs she's interested, but at the same time has a boyfriend so it's kinda meh. I'm happy being friends with her so I don't attempt to progress things since I don't want to ruin the friendship. Ie. I'm very happy being friends with her. Girl C: I have a crush on and would never make her into as good a friend as girl A or girl B. I like her too much and my intentions would be wrong. She said a while ago (2 monthsish) "I really like talking to you", and I moved the conversation onto her boyfriend then went inside. This is because she had a boyfriend. Why the hell are girls like this. She has since broken up with her boyfriend (I learned this tonight). Anyhow girl A is in town for two days. I talk to her on friday, and say we should drink saturday. I text girl C figuring out where they are going. She sends me texts in gangsta talk (hilarious, I am in love ;-)... I tell her I can't text gangsta, and end the conversation saying I prefer the gansta texts). She says she'll tell me where they are going later in a text, then nothing. Next day, the one I planned to drink with them on (I was busy on friday with other parties/friends/etc. and I got much too drunk lol). I text girl C, she says she's feeling tired, not sure if she wants to go out, yadayada. I ask if girl A is also going out, shes like not sure I'll talk to her in a while and I'll text you where we are going. Lol **** that I think in my head - "text you later" now translates to "never". I text girl B, she says drinking with girl A you should come. I ask where, no response. I call her, nothing (no answer). It's like 8:30 when I start this bull****. By 10:30 I get a text saying x bar at 12, which I would have known anyways if I hadn't talked to them at all. I'm getting the impression that I can drink with them if I put a ton of effort in texting them, act like I really want to, then I guess they'll let me drink there with them. I get ready to go to bed since this is bull****. Girl A texts me at 11:30 saying going to the bar (she didn't have my number until now, got into from one of the other two). I don't respond. She then gets her friends+she herself texts me a few times. I feel like they've made it up to me so I go downtown. I also can't rightfully be mad at girl A anyways.
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