Prince of Serendip Posted August 22, 2010 Posted August 22, 2010 Hi everyone:), Ive been on these boards reading with you all for a small period now. Big hug. Anyhow i need some advice myself. My ex gf and i have been broken up for a while, for no obvious ( explained:P) reason. There must be one other than i was told but the girl insisted on work school and other time sucking things that had a priority. Which is ok since you would want to be a priority and not a secondary in a relationship. Anyhow there is still a certain amount of chemistry if we see eachother. And we are both Dancers ( salsa etc) and not to be arrogant. Rather good at it. After the breakup we still did a few things together but each time she would either be seduced by me, or completely opposite not look me in the eyes to avoid being seduced ( this could be me being a arrogant prick but hey:P). I tried for the last couple of months to take her out, and sometimes she would agree and sometimes not, but there was alllways something that came in between, i luckily verified that some of them were true, doubts about others. But it felt like she was avoiding me. I declared NC after her last no show excuses. Which were very cold. Now i teach dancing and assist at workshops ( im 22 shes 21 ) and i had to do this workshop last night. After that theres a party. I went outside with someone i know, BAM there she was with some group of "friends". Anyhow i said to myself man up and show her what you got. So i danced with her for 7-8 songs, and saw that chemistry again. But when she left, it messed me up and i feel like im at square one again. Just like every post here predicts. But it would have felt wrong not too have danced with her at the moment. As we shared that passion. When i got home i got into an im session with her discussing the evening a little ( nothing relationship wise just small talk) And i left her with i got a few tips for you and her asking what are they. And i finished with Tell ya some other time. Does anyone have any advice for me, i dont feel broken or anything, but my mind is now again completely focused on her. NC was doing well .
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