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So I met this girl while I was on holiday this summer.

We clicked really well and everything and I really took a liking to her, we actually spent half a month in each other's company and really enjoyed it.

 

The problem is.. We're almost exactly halfway around the world from each other now that we've gone home. I'm like based in Southeast Asia and she's in America.

 

Its been hell for me these few weeks away from her because all we can do is chat online and the time difference is exactly 12 hours so basically she's up and around while I'm sleeping and vice versa. I want to give her hugs every single day but all I can do is camp on my computer waiting for her to come online.

 

The bigger problem is, going by the looks of it, the nearest possible time that I will be able to go to America for a visit is freakin' June next year and its digging my insides out because I miss her so bad. Its not even confirmed that I'll be able to visit her..

 

Sigh I don't know what to do right now.......

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That's so sad :( Does she know how you feel and does she feel the same?

LDR's where couples meet every few weeks or few months are hard enough but to not see them for nearly a year is horrible, I don't think I could cope with that, unless we had solid plans for the future.

 

 

So I met this girl while I was on holiday this summer.

We clicked really well and everything and I really took a liking to her, we actually spent half a month in each other's company and really enjoyed it.

 

The problem is.. We're almost exactly halfway around the world from each other now that we've gone home. I'm like based in Southeast Asia and she's in America.

 

Its been hell for me these few weeks away from her because all we can do is chat online and the time difference is exactly 12 hours so basically she's up and around while I'm sleeping and vice versa. I want to give her hugs every single day but all I can do is camp on my computer waiting for her to come online.

 

The bigger problem is, going by the looks of it, the nearest possible time that I will be able to go to America for a visit is freakin' June next year and its digging my insides out because I miss her so bad. Its not even confirmed that I'll be able to visit her..

 

Sigh I don't know what to do right now.......

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That's so sad :( Does she know how you feel and does she feel the same?

LDR's where couples meet every few weeks or few months are hard enough but to not see them for nearly a year is horrible, I don't think I could cope with that, unless we had solid plans for the future.

 

Thanks for the concern HeavenOrHell (:

 

The sad part, actually, is when we were to say goodbye.

She had an emergency the night before and had to leave in a hurry and she could only call to say goodbye (we were supposed to hang out one last night and I was actually planning to tell her then).

 

But as fate would have it, I ended up only being able to type a long, sincere e-mail explaining everything to her since phone calls are so expensive and webcam lagged. I did tell her how difficult it was going to be, but I told her that I was optimistic that everything would work out in the end if we put enough effort into it.

 

Actually, I only managed to pick up the courage to send that e-mail to her just a few days ago (for fear that a LDR like this would only end up hurting her, but I couldn't hold it in anymore), to which she said she needed some time to think. Now THAT is making me feel crappy. Ugh.

 

I am pretty sure if I lived closer to her, if I could ask her out, tell her everything I have stored in my heart and gave her a good long hug, we would already be an item. It just sucks to know that the distance (and not me) is the cause of her hesitation...

 

Meanwhile, still looking for ways to right this somehow. They say love knows no boundaries and I'm going to keep working on it, even if it ends up in failure...

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