I need , should i just wait and see if he just comes back to me?

[xxnikki494xx]

okay so i reallly need some help. Me and my boyfriend well (ex now) have been going out for 23 months.

we broke up about a month ago. we were completely fine the day before he broke up with me... we were

perfect and not even fighting.. His reason was that he wanted to experience new girls, and didnt want

a serious relationship, but still wanted to date other girls. So we stopped talking for about 2 weeks, even though

i kept on trying to talk/text him, and ask if we can try again etc... he responded with very mean texts, one

even said he was over me. But then after the 2 weeks i sent him a text saying i love you. in the morning

he asked why i sent it i said that i missed saying it and texting him that.. then he responded well i love

you too... then we sorta of acted like a couple and that night we talked and he told me he still cares about me

and loves me and ill always be his baby..... we talked and texted like we were a couple for about a week..i even

texted him a long thing saying how we could be perfect because we haven't fought and have been getting

along.. he said he liked the text, but didnt wanna date me...? then one nite we talked and i was upset because

i thought we could get back, but he was like "i guess i was just putting fuel to the fire." and said he doesn't

want to date me..

we stopped acting like a couple now, and he talks to other girls well since we broke up he has,

but isnt dating any of them.. but he still does text me good morning alot, and he always texts me back if i text

him. Yesterday it was his birthday and in the card i gave to him, it said wanna try again.. he said no i dont

sorry but then he texted said goodnight love you kisses before he went to bed. its like he is giving me mixed

signals.. but he doesnt want to be with me..

We have been on and off for 2 years, but none of our break ups have lasted this long, i miss him

so much... im depressed, cant sleep, cant eat cant do anything. i feel like i need him in my life, we have been through

so much together. Its not like i need a guy in my life im fine without one, but i really miss him, and i always

think about him. he did tell me, maybe in a year we can date again. but i dont want to wait...i have tried everything

i have made youtube videos with songs and words saying how i feel he saw them too... ive left voiccan do. he said he wont give in.. i would do anything to get him back. pemails.. theres

nothin else i lease help. btw, this is a high

school relationship, im 17 and he is 18 and i will be a junior and he will be a senior. this was our first "real real"

relationship for the both of us.. but i wanna still be with him, but we were inlove, with did everything together,

and always got through fights. Is there anything i can do to show him we are meant to be.. or have him

give us another chance and not want to seee other girls.

 

 

-Nicole

[thrownaway]

Please stay away from him. He is no good for you. This is the same way he will act when you have kids with him. Think about what you are doing to yourself by chasing him. This type of man likes women chasing him.

 

Look up some articles on co-dependency, do some reading, and make sure it doesn't become you!

 

Wikipedia - Codependency

 

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