lilbunny Posted August 25, 2010 Posted August 25, 2010 Now he keeps texting me wanting to be "friends". What the heck is this?!!? Do you think he is feeling guilty? Or good lord even worse doing the whole 'I'd better be nice to the "crazy person" because they can't possibly cope with being rejected by me' The guy seems like a tool to me hun, lucky escape for sure!
alphamale Posted August 25, 2010 Posted August 25, 2010 The guy seems like a tool to me hun, lucky escape for sure! indeed little bunny
Author Loquacious Miss L. Posted August 25, 2010 Author Posted August 25, 2010 Well I had had him on my facebook and deleted him and he texted wanting to know why. When I explained I felt awkward about the situation, he pressed the issue and continued to do so today about wanting to be friends with me. I'd just as soon just forgotten the situation. I can cope being rejected by him, I realized that it's his hangup and there's nothing I can do about my brain except take care of it, ya know? And if he doesn't want to date me then he doesn't have to but I'm sure someone will. Thanks for your thoughts all.
alphamale Posted August 25, 2010 Posted August 25, 2010 Well I had had him on my facebook and deleted him and he texted wanting to know why. When I explained I felt awkward about the situation, he pressed the issue and continued to do so today about wanting to be friends with me. just tell him to get lost LML
Author Loquacious Miss L. Posted August 25, 2010 Author Posted August 25, 2010 I like your style alphamale:) Yep I agree.
Author Loquacious Miss L. Posted August 25, 2010 Author Posted August 25, 2010 Went to therapy today and realized the reason why this situation bothers me so much is a)I felt judged b) I was intimate with him quickly and as such the rejection hurt more because he still had no problem having sex with me despite his knowledge and c)I was looking to him to validate my sense of self.....which makes sense because otherwise I would have just been like, "No biggie, he has hangups about it and that's that, movin on." Therapy is great.
Dazzel Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 I don't have much to add (didn't read the whole thread, to be honest- just the first page), but I can relate. I am also bipolar. It's mild compared to some, but it still sucks to deal with. Have all the emotional rollercoasters, low self esteem, anxiety, etc. I've met some people who refuse to date bipolar people as well. There is a stigma attached to being bipolar. It sucks. But at least my current boyfriend doesn't mind it. Guess I got lucky with him. The few ones before him weren't so hot.
Author Loquacious Miss L. Posted August 26, 2010 Author Posted August 26, 2010 Thank you then you understand my pain. It's a shi**y thing to deal with but hey at least I know I'm not alone!
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