poohsumes Posted August 21, 2010 Posted August 21, 2010 Found out the other woman 3 weeks ago and it has been happening behind me for the past 3 month. Confronted my husband 2 weeks ago and he denied it and said it was a mutual friend. I've her cell number, but this woman speaks chinese only. Therefore, I need a proof to see myself or picture of them together. I am really serious about it. I've tried to trace her residence but because it's not a landline, it's not possible. Have a feeling this woman is married with a son. Called a few times, trying to get if the husband answer the call so I can tell him about his wife. Appreciate any reply at all especially in Vancouver,BC
skydiveaddict Posted August 22, 2010 Posted August 22, 2010 Hire a private detective for a couple of nights and you will have all your answers
onthebrinkofitall Posted August 22, 2010 Posted August 22, 2010 If you really and truly believe your husband is cheating, leave. There's no need to make this woman's spouse aware. He will find out in his own time and that is their marriage to deal with. You have your own problems and issues to deal with. Don't let their issues become yours.
Iselia Posted August 22, 2010 Posted August 22, 2010 Hire a private detective for a couple of nights and you will have all your answers That. Or you could try to hack his e-mail. Or check his cell phone. Or just up and leave if you truly believe he is cheating.
What_Next Posted August 22, 2010 Posted August 22, 2010 Personally I'd just leave but if you are in need of proof a PI is the way to handle this. Quick and easy, hand over a few clams and you'll get your proof. Where there's smoke, there's fire though.
dgiirl Posted August 22, 2010 Posted August 22, 2010 Why do you need "proof"? If you mistrust your husband so much, the relationship is already destroyed. Why do you need any more proof? Just leave!
cavedweller Posted August 22, 2010 Posted August 22, 2010 pooh, You don't need to catch him..You need to pack up, leave and hire a divorce lawyer... Forget all of the drama..
RecordProducer Posted August 22, 2010 Posted August 22, 2010 There are many ways to catch someone but you have to tell me more information. How do you know she only speaks Chinese? Many foreigners answer their phones in their language but some of them do speak English. Maybe she knows your phone ID and was pretending she couldn't speak English. Please tell me more. By the way, you should NEVER call from your phone (cell or landline).
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