freckles3131 Posted August 21, 2010 Posted August 21, 2010 Ex is dating someone new. Polar opposite of his "type" None of his family or friends can stand her. Adjectives such as: Loud, Rude, Impolite, Unattractive,Selfish, Pitbull, Fat, Callous,Village Bicycle, Cheater, Liar, Town Slut Doesn't go out of her way to get to know anyone, has no life outside of bars, were used. Now my ex typically and self-professed he likes to date woman with such adjectives such as: Petite, Athletic,Intelligent, Has a life, Thoughtful, Faithful, Kind, etc... His friends and family are all making statements like "What the f-ck is he doing with her? "Has he lost his mind?" "I don't care for her.""She didn't impress me" However....they say that he follows her around like a puppy dog. He has done all of the things I had been trying to get him to do in our 5 year relationship i.e. work less, have fun more, travel etc..and he is doing all these things with this new girl. He just met her at week 3 after he moved out from my house. He has been dating her for 2 and a half months now. Why would someone go around not caring about all those negative attributes? It's obvious she is only well-liked by a small social circle. I saw her at a party and she just sat there with a sour puss on her face, like it was all about her. It was a party for my ex's best friend and my ex is in the wedding and she didn't go around with him and even try to get to know his friends. What gives?
VeveCakes Posted August 21, 2010 Posted August 21, 2010 Do you know her personally? Those are a lot of judgments thrown around on "hearsay". Sounds like sour grapes. Are those second group of adjectives words that describe you? Because if so things didn't work out with you so maybe he's choosing a different route. Last question...why are you wasting your time on this? You are broken up, and dwelling on your exs life is only going to make things harder for you.
skydiveaddict Posted August 21, 2010 Posted August 21, 2010 Who cares what gives? If he wanted you in his life he would be there for you. Stop worrying about the the new gf and move on. RIGHT NOW Have absolutely nothing more to do w/him. you are worth more than that
Author freckles3131 Posted August 21, 2010 Author Posted August 21, 2010 Do you know her personally? Those are a lot of judgments thrown around on "hearsay". Sounds like sour grapes. Her ex is on my softball team. Plus, her friend is a mutual friend of mine. And my ex bf told me she "had" a reputation and when he first met her he was "less than impressed' and she did tell him how up until meeting him she was sleeping with everyone in town. Unfortunately, I was in the relationship for 10 years and alot..I mean alot of people have been approaching me to discuss it. So the "heresay" is by good people that know her, know of her, have met her, etc... I am asking because I am curious in the dynamics. It just boggles me more than anything. Just as a concept.
Nappeal Posted August 21, 2010 Posted August 21, 2010 Freckles - let it go Its not worth your time. IDK what someone would want to do w someone who had a description like that, but in all honesty its sounds temporary. I don't mean to get your hopes up, but we all have our types. My XH's new wife...the one he cheated on me w then married...looks exactly like me, and its not a surprise, its just his type. Dear, if someone treated me how you described, I'd give it 2 or 3 months before I woke the hell up and moved on.
Author freckles3131 Posted August 21, 2010 Author Posted August 21, 2010 Freckles - Dear, if someone treated me how you described, I'd give it 2 or 3 months before I woke the hell up and moved on. Not sure what part of the post you are referring to?
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