Dexter Morgan Posted August 30, 2010 Posted August 30, 2010 I didn't say it was right but maybe, in a warped sick kind of way, this OW thinks the BW is in her way and wants to cause her pain. I know it's wrong and twisted, it's just a thought. Why else would an OW want to cause a BW pain? ah...ok. sorry
You Go Girl Posted August 30, 2010 Posted August 30, 2010 I can't understand it either, but why do kids ride down the streets on their bikes and bash mailboxes with baseball bats of people who've never done them any wrong? Why do ANY people do awful things to people they don't even know? So many questions, and no answers. It's simple. Some people, especially immature children, like the thrill of getting away with not playing by the rules. For children it's a test of authority, fairness, justice. For adults, it probably is some form of arrested development, ergo, same as children in maturity. " You can't catch me, I'm the gingerbread man!"
LilyBart Posted August 30, 2010 Posted August 30, 2010 I mentioned earlier that the BS’s mother died last week. I also mentioned, I DO have a heart and I didn’t drop the D-Day bomb then – which I, of course, could have. See that everyone? I could have and I didn’t. So people can stop flipping their lid about how I said I was THINKING of “telling” on a particularly sensitive day. Do I like thinking of it? Of course I do. But if I was truly evil, I would have compounded her loss with even more pain. Accuse me of premeditating, blah blah blah – find me a prosecutor who’s going to convict me for telling the truth. Gotcha there, huh? Anyway, I had MM begging all weekend, post funeral, from the fallout of all that Neediness he had been displaying. Ugh, neediness makes me want to kick him away… but he made up for it. Sometimes I wonder if this dynamic is what makes it so fun – and why, for the time being, I won’t spill the beans to the BS. It would ruin the fun. Sorry for the t/j – just wanted to update and tell everyone to take a chill pill!
ladydesigner Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 I mentioned earlier that the BS’s mother died last week. I also mentioned, I DO have a heart and I didn’t drop the D-Day bomb then – which I, of course, could have. See that everyone? I could have and I didn’t. So people can stop flipping their lid about how I said I was THINKING of “telling” on a particularly sensitive day. Do I like thinking of it? Of course I do. But if I was truly evil, I would have compounded her loss with even more pain. Accuse me of premeditating, blah blah blah – find me a prosecutor who’s going to convict me for telling the truth. Gotcha there, huh? Anyway, I had MM begging all weekend, post funeral, from the fallout of all that Neediness he had been displaying. Ugh, neediness makes me want to kick him away… but he made up for it. Sometimes I wonder if this dynamic is what makes it so fun – and why, for the time being, I won’t spill the beans to the BS. It would ruin the fun. Sorry for the t/j – just wanted to update and tell everyone to take a chill pill! Stirring it up Lily:laugh: The bolded answered one of my previous questions.
Mimolicious Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 I mentioned earlier that the BS’s mother died last week. I also mentioned, I DO have a heart and I didn’t drop the D-Day bomb then – which I, of course, could have. See that everyone? I could have and I didn’t. So people can stop flipping their lid about how I said I was THINKING of “telling” on a particularly sensitive day. Umm...Maybe you didn't do it on such "sensitive day" because your "bomb" compared to the loss of her mother may have been just a simple fire cracker? I'm just saying... Do I like thinking of it? Of course I do. But if I was truly evil, I would have compounded her loss with even more pain. Accuse me of premeditating, blah blah blah – find me a prosecutor who’s going to convict me for telling the truth. Gotcha there, huh? Technically speaking you can most def be convicted, they may just have consideration on your sentence. Don't get it twisted, just because you are saying the truth doesn't minimize the moral of the story or the severeness of your intent. Anyway, I had MM begging all weekend, post funeral, from the fallout of all that Neediness he had been displaying. Ugh, neediness makes me want to kick him away… but he made up for it. Poor guy... if he only knew that he is a toy. Sometimes I wonder if this dynamic is what makes it so fun – and why, for the time being, I won’t spill the beans to the BS. It would ruin the fun. Sorry for the t/j – just wanted to update and tell everyone to take a chill pill! Kinda arrogant and abrupt, ain't it?!
LifesontheUp Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 Kinda arrogant and abrupt, ain't it?! Yeah she sounds very resentful of the MMs wife.
donnamaybe Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 Umm...Maybe you didn't do it on such "sensitive day" because your "bomb" compared to the loss of her mother may have been just a simple fire cracker? I'm just saying...Yeah. Most likely just waiting until it will make the most impact, thus, fresh hurt for the BS.
herenow Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 This isn't going to make me any friends, but here goes. On another thread a posters authenticity has been questioned. So, I question this OW and how real her story is. IMO, this could be an OW trying to enrage BW's. Or, it could be a BW trying to make OW's look bad. Either way, it sure seems like she is stirring the pot for attention. I believe that such a person (if the story is real) would not care enough to take the time to post anything on a relationship forum. If this were a true story, I would think a person so mean wouldn't care much about us at all. JMO
seren Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 Does anyone else think it odd that most of us are disgusted more by the intention to tell to cause hurt rather than the hurt cause by the actual A? Frankly, nothing could have hurt me more than the A, so a bitter OW thinking she was dropping bombs might have found dissapointment in my lack of response to her, in fact I would feel sorry for someone who felt they had to get their kicks by hurting someone else (emotionally). It just sounds like someone stirring the pot.
Dexter Morgan Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 I mentioned earlier that the BS’s mother died last week. I also mentioned, I DO have a heart and I didn’t drop the D-Day bomb then – which I, of course, could have. See that everyone? I could have and I didn’t. sorry, you don't get any points for that. doesn't change the way you are.
Dexter Morgan Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 Does anyone else think it odd that most of us are disgusted more by the intention to tell to cause hurt rather than the hurt cause by the actual A? Frankly, nothing could have hurt me more than the A, so a bitter OW thinking she was dropping bombs might have found dissapointment in my lack of response to her, in fact I would feel sorry for someone who felt they had to get their kicks by hurting someone else (emotionally). It just sounds like someone stirring the pot. watch it there seren....you gonna get your hand slapped by the mods:rolleyes:
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