xx.Kael.xx Posted August 20, 2010 Posted August 20, 2010 Saturday = party at a friends including , new ladies, drinks and hottubing. Thing is, I don't want to be the guy there who's hung up over his ex...I want to mingle & possibly get a number or two. But I still feel down over her...so what can I do to pre plan, and how should I go about talking to girls there?
Thorgs Posted August 20, 2010 Posted August 20, 2010 Maybe it's too soon to get with new girls but at least just go and have fun. Don't force yourself to move on.
Kic Posted August 20, 2010 Posted August 20, 2010 Make sure you're at 100% when you go. Full nights rest and don't get smashed the night before. Exercise for a decent pump and allow plenty of time to get ready, stress-free. Most people are rarely at 100%. When you're at your best, you're less likely to get distracted or reminded of your ex and more likely to work your magic on girls you've never met. I prefer to not drink too much either, but I always drink enough to not look out of place.
Shakz Posted August 20, 2010 Posted August 20, 2010 You could always use that "I just broke up" shtick to your advantage. Be a little aloof, look for a girl that interests you, make eye contact with her, then give her the spiel. It's only worked for, I don't know, about a million years.
Username37 Posted August 20, 2010 Posted August 20, 2010 Yeah, you can use the "I got broken up" thing to your advantage. But when you say it, don't sound depressed. Sound like you want to start fresh, even if you aren't in the inside. And here's my opinion. Don't hookup or rebound. It will make you miss your ex more. Just talk, make friends, and have fun. Good luck bro
USMCHokie Posted August 20, 2010 Posted August 20, 2010 ...so what can I do to pre plan, and how should I go about talking to girls there? First of all, GTL...gym, tan, laundry... Next, you say you don't want to be that mopey guy...then just don't be the mopey guy...you only mope because you want the attention and sympathy from others... Don't get hammered...hammered = mopey kael...for a long time, hammered hokie = instantly mopey hokie...so don't fall into that trap... I personally wouldn't bring up the recent breakup...you're at the party to get away from your troubles, not drag them in with you and potentially bring yourself down or the party down... And most importantly, have fun...and avoid grenades...
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