xx.Kael.xx Posted August 19, 2010 Posted August 19, 2010 When she messages me after a month of NC , just to *check to see how I'm doing* & then just leave it at that? I just said I'm doing perfect & left it st that. Any imput? Man, some women...
Username37 Posted August 19, 2010 Posted August 19, 2010 When she messages me after a month of NC , just to *check to see how I'm doing* & then just leave it at that? I just said I'm doing perfect & left it st that. Any imput? Man, some women... My ex did the same. She's wondering if she still got a hook on you. Don't reply back. Doesn't mean reconciliation. It's also a possiblity that she feels guilty and is just wondering how you're coping. She's trying to relieve her guilt.
edgeofdarkness Posted August 19, 2010 Posted August 19, 2010 do u not know? I guess shes the dumper right, ? it makes you keep them on yr radar, and makes sure they still get their ego stroked they don't caontact you for yr benefit they contact you for theirs big mistake replying, never reply, replying makes them think hah got u so u still want me around huh?
Username37 Posted August 19, 2010 Posted August 19, 2010 Oh and don't make the same mistake I did. I replied back haha
flyguy23 Posted August 19, 2010 Posted August 19, 2010 If my ex takes a month to contact me I wont even want to talk to her by then. That is a long time to not talk to someone you "love"
Nappeal Posted August 19, 2010 Posted August 19, 2010 Just from reading up around here, 1 or 2 months seems to be the mark that a random text comes in saying the same thing. Wow, does that get your hopes up! But they're 'just checking on you', not saying 'hey I miss you and want you back'. Big difference, eh?
BiAxident Posted August 19, 2010 Posted August 19, 2010 It is easier to answer this by identifying what the text message does not mean, mainly that she wants you back.
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