alm77 Posted August 19, 2010 Posted August 19, 2010 Just got home a week and a half ago from spending 6 weeks with my long distance SO. We are on a break now, as he is confused about what he truly feels for me. His feelings started to wane a while ago and he said he doesn't feel the same as he did in the beginning. He wants time to think and to sort things out. He's also dealing with chronic back pain, and other health issues. He is a generally anxious person that seems to have trouble dealing with things. Procrastinates and doesn't do things even if he really desires to. Either puts them off or his fears of failure control him. I respect the request for time and space, but just curious as to whether or not I should at some point ask to talk. I'm concerned that if too much time goes by, things will get real cool and that if I don't allow enough time to pass, he'll just feel pressured and like he didn't really have the time at all. How long would you all wait before asking whether there's even a chance of us being something again, or would you just let him be until he initiates contact? I suppose him taking time means we are broken up, and in that case maybe I should just back off completely. Thanks and good luck to you all with your situations and issues. These are not easy circumstances and I know how painful it can be.
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