DJILLUSION Posted February 16, 2004 Posted February 16, 2004 What do I do I miss my ex so much and my child. She wants no more to do with me. Will not even talk to me about my son. All i know is she dont seem to love me anymore and said when she thinks of me it is all about anger and fights. I have a good counsler that I feel could fix matters but her heart is made up not to come back. I loved her for 5 years and everything I did was for her. Now I have nothing.
Darkangelism Posted February 16, 2004 Posted February 16, 2004 How long has she been gone? You have a legal right to your child.
Misty2004 Posted February 16, 2004 Posted February 16, 2004 DjIllusion Why did you break up? Has things changed now?
Author DJILLUSION Posted February 16, 2004 Author Posted February 16, 2004 She has been gone now for 2 1/2 months and I have only seen my son once. I was not put on his birth certificate because we where not married. We broke up because of a fight but she was planning to leave reguardless of that. I know things where not good but I still feel we could have made it work. I need a lawyer but have no money and all the state programs cant help. She leaves my son with her parents all week and only sees him on the weekends. they live 2 hours from where she lives.
Author DJILLUSION Posted February 16, 2004 Author Posted February 16, 2004 I also posted 2 other post about this whole deal about a week ago. so read those to better understand this. THANKS
faux Posted February 18, 2004 Posted February 18, 2004 She left for a reason. The reason does not seem to be one fight, but many fights. You say it has been two and a half months. You cannot change in two and a half months and I think that she knows that. Stop convincing yourself that you have changed and can make things work now, just because you have a counselor. Focus on yourself and what led up to her leaving. Better yourself and try to do this for you and what may come with the rest of your life more-so than getting back together with her. I understand that you want to see your child and that your child means a great deal to you. You really need to do this for yourself though. It's going to take time. Years. Don't convince yourself you've changed. Just work hard and change. It takes a while. My father is in a horrible position since my mother left him. He has the same attitude "I've changed. I've changed let's work things out!" For the past few years since the divorce that is all he has been fixating on. He has not changed. If he had stopped focusing on a quick fix and really helped himself the past few years he may have had a chance.
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