AvianChaos Posted August 18, 2010 Posted August 18, 2010 My girlfriend dumped me today. I was very confused. She then called me and told me that she had cheated on me. I am now enraged and miserable. I loved her and i want to send the message that she really screwed up and she wont get me back. She wants to meet up and talk. The only reason i am considering this is so she doesnt go out and do something stupid or hurt her self. Should i meet her?
Don Ho Posted August 18, 2010 Posted August 18, 2010 Sorry bro. It happens to all of us. You should be outraged and stay mad. It helps you from being depressed. NO, you are not going to tell her anything. NO you are not going to meet her. For what? So you can grovel? So she can make you feel worse? So you can profess your love (and that won't change how she feels about you one bit). All you have left is your DIGNITY and damnit you're going to keep it!! Why would she go out and hurt herself if she broke up with you? Honestly, that is NOT your problem. If she is that mentally unstable, you are not Dr. Drew and if she really wants to hurt herself she will do it regardless of what you say or do. Hard to accept, but true. Lets get to the crux of the matter. Bet you weren't a challenge, you were too nice, too accommodating and too available, right? Women usually cheat when they lose interest in their current BF and they're looking for more of a MAN. Again, another hard pill to swallow. NOW let's talk about what you're going to do: you are going to send ONE text message to her in the morning and word it exactly like this: "I agree that you should have broke up with me. I have also been having my doubts. Besides, if you're heart's not into it, then it's not into it. I'll be fine. BTW, I can't meet up with you, I have too much going on. I'm sure we'll cross paths again someday. Take care". THATS ALL!! Exactly as I wrote, ONE text only. Then go TOTAL NC and TOTAL no response. Do not answer any texts, do not answer calls, no email, NOTHING. Delete her phone numbers from your phone. Block her on Facebook. Cut ALL ties. She cheated on you bro and once a woman cheats on you it's the ultimate proof that she does not respect you and now never will. You cannot and should not take back a cheating woman. Good luck, you'll be fine.
whatadeer26 Posted August 18, 2010 Posted August 18, 2010 I agree with the above. She violated your relationship, send the message and move on. I can tell you this, if you were to get back with her you would never get over the fact that she cheated and you will drive yourself mad forever. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
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